OKAY..please do NOT laugh.
i seriously am 16 and have never had a BF...
i mean seriously!!!!!
this is annoying..and normally i REALLY do not care but idk..i feel like there is something wrong with me... maybe i'm too shy?
i've been asked out before..but i only seem to get asked out by the jerks..so yea.
i dont think i look that bad either...
heres some pics if u wanted to know...
http://s212.photobucket.com/albums/cc314/princessal_91/?action=view¤t=alexxx.jpg
http://s212.photobucket.com/albums/cc314/princessal_91/?action=view¤t=n601770313_98089_9206.jpg
http://s212.photobucket.com/albums/cc314/princessal_91/?action=view¤t=pqw07F378437-02.jpg
2007-11-12 15:41:13 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You keep asking this question and in the end you want attention and compliments. I dont want to be rude but ive seen your pictures up alot and I'm just gonna be real with you. You need to stop fishing for compliments and your only taking pictures from the side which you look beautiful in. The one picture that you are actually showing your face you look sickly and scary. So i really dont know how you look. Pictures will not prove anything and obviously you are way into yourself. (The reason you keep asking picture questions.) So I'm just gonna say that you need to work on your inner beauty cause in the end that's what matters.
You're Italian and German and live in Mexico. By the way if i was a pervert you would be freaked out right now that i knew that so take these pictures down!
2007-11-15 07:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by **LLL** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. You a very pretty girl. Try going up to the guys and talking to them. Make them notice you. Guys are very difficult. Trust me I had the same problem. I had all the ugly guys ask me out. Never no body cute. Lately its turned around. I didn't even do anything. Try being less shy and I know it will be hard cause I was shy it took me awhile to get over it. Dress real pretty almost like preps do. Don't be shy!
2007-11-12 15:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by HotStuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In highschool and at sixteen, pressure is on but you have to choose your battles. Are you thinking there is something wrong with you because you think there is or have you been told by your friends that there is. The only opinion when it comes to dating that matters is whether you are ready for it and is there someone else that is ready for you. Also if dating is something you feel you are ready for are you mature enough to sit down with your parents and set up ground rules before jumping into it head first. Your parents might be a key factor in why you aren't dating they raised you to respect yourself and by showing the maturity of sitting down and saying Hey I am 16 and ready to date I want you to know I will be responsible and make responsible choices because that is what you have taught me...you might even find yourself being a little more at ease know your parents opinion on the issue. Sometimes showing this maturity will engage parents to allow you to be responsible with a later curfew and other benefits to bringing up other subjects that are hard to decide on.
2007-11-12 15:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOSH. I have the EXACT same problem! Well not exactly. I mean, I've dated before, but it was never really...real. And all the guys were jerks, too! And now I'm in highschool, and NO ONE asks me out. I feel like all my friends who are uglier than me have boyfriends, but then I don't! What's wrong with me?
Look, I don't have an answer for you. All I know is that we are definitely in the same boat. I feel for you, and hopefully we can both find the right guy some day...
Good luck :)
2007-11-12 15:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with you. I think you take a relationship very serious, and you dont want to date the wrong person, or as you call them, jerks. A little honesty though, all guys can be jerks at one time you have to give someone a chance. My advice is that if the boy can make you smile or laugh then give him a chance. If you dont like it then break it off... no hard feelings.
2007-11-12 15:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very pretty i dont know what it is
Maybe u just need to be more open
and u know u can ask out guys too
it is ok u know
and also that last pic really scared
me i wouldnt post that one any where to be honest
the rest r wonderful though
good luck
2007-11-12 15:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Shony07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16, no boyfriend? No problem! You have lots of time. You just sit tight and wait for a decent guy to come by. Ignore the jerks, they're a waste of time. (I know, I used to be one). Have a good time, and when the right guy comes along, you will know.
No need to hurry.
2007-11-12 15:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by getting older 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are giving off the wrong impression or looking at the wrong types of guys. There doesn't seem to be anything wrong with the way you look. Try focusing on yourself and give off a positiveness about yourself and the type of guys you are looking for should be attracted to you.
2007-11-12 15:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by littleme836 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach the guys that you want to go out with, simple as that. The jerks, if you will, are the ones that are going to be most likely to ask you out, as they seem to be the ones that are more confident. A shyer guy will not go out of his way to ask you out, so you will have to find some guy you like, any guy, and make it known that you like them.
2007-11-12 15:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Shamu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this many times before.. Usually guys wont ask you out because they assume you're already taken.. i mean.. look at you.. (compliment). Try to be more open maybe and flirt a little and it'll come. or maybe you're just around shy guys too much. :)
2007-11-12 15:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by Scrooby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋