Well, my name is Russell.... I'm a sophomore in High school and my mom just had her best friend's daughter come and live with us about 5 months ago and we began to butt heads from the 2nd week!
Nikita, is in the same grade as me but we don't have any classes together (thank god!) and we are two, completely different people. In Kodiak, my home town and home for a lot of my younger years is commonly referred to as "The Rock", because not many people ever leave!
The youth there, unlike here (Mat-Su Valley, Mainland Alaska) is like, well I guess you can call it a lot like the "ghetto".. at least where she is from.
We get along every once in a while... actually more often than not, and when we fight it become this huge grudge. Often times... usually, she is acting like an 8 year-old on drugs. She thinks she is all that and that whatever she does, goes. Well, it doesn't and I think someone needs to show that to her and make her realize that she is ruining her own life and future.
2007-11-12 15:30:53 · 3 answers · asked by russellP 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is a lesson that you must learn in life my friend. You must get on with all people.
2007-11-12 22:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea that was crappy advice he gave you, I've got truth.
I had a step-sister since I was 7 years old, guess how much older I'm? 5 months and 28 days, yes she counted out the days. Ether way, buddy, thiers a reason for your guys..... lack of seeing "eye-2-eye" that you won't be able to fight back, UNLESS you guys get into a deep "bro/sister" relationship, yea I know she isn't your sister. BUT unless you take family seriously and do like your doing, honestly care about their futures, you'll have all sorts of problems. It goes this deep, you love her, you love'd her the second week, that doesn't mean you want to screw her, marry her, or even spend all your time with her, it means you FEEL for her. Now what you feel is going to be dependent on how you treat this relationship. Like right now you feel anger for her being that way, frustration in yourself for not dealing with this right. And maybe anger in general at the world making this happen. All that aside unless you take this with a sense of purpose, your just coping with her.
2007-11-16 01:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude that would desire to be truly risky. The age hollow is a ways too extensive and that i'd be frightened for my sister besides. attempt to talk to her in a manner that shows you're greater worried for her wellness as antagonistic to telling her what she would be in a position to and can't do. each and all of the superb
2016-10-02 06:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋