ok, so ive been with this guy for like 4 months or so now, and we broke up, and he got with another girl, but then he came back to me, but like i told him i wasnt gona be his rebound girl or watever. so he says he really wants to have sex with me, and like we talk so much and like every day, and it really seems like he cares about me, but i want to make sure that im losing it because i want to and not cuz i just feel like it will make him happy. but i told him this, and i said i want it to be with someone that i care about and that he cares about me too, he said that he did, and it seems like he does, but sometimes im just wondering if its an act, or if he really means it. and i know like all guys want it sex, so i really dont know if i should do it with him, cuz hes someone really special to me.
but basically what i want to kno is if he really cares bout me, or just wants to have sex and to be done with me
2007-11-12 15:26:37 · 10 answers · asked by huneyb86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont do it. im serious. he will move the earth and the moon to make you think he really cares."anything it takes to get in your pants". trust me. guys know this. but the truth is that he doesnt really love you. he left you for another girl. ouch. a guy who loves a girl doesnt do that. not excuses. and he says he wants to have sex with you???! gees. hes not even gonna deny what hes really after. most guys who are smooth play it cool like they dont even care and they let the girl say when shes ready but hes pretty direct. DONT DO THIS. you will regret it when he up and leaves you as soon as its done.
2007-11-12 15:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Love101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easiest question ever...
He just wants sex. He had a taste with the other girl and now wants more. Don't do this to yourself. I swear, you will regret this in the future.
P.S. After reading some of the other answers, I'd suggest at a minimum, tell him you won't have sex with him. Don't say you want him to prove himself, just tell him no. See how he reacts. If he really cares, he won't change how he acts, if he's just after sex, it will be obvious within a month because he'll keep trying.
2007-11-12 23:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by Xeno 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him just b/c he wants you to. If your not ready then, if he cares he will stick around for a little bit longer, so dont feel pressured to sleep with him b/c it wont be worth it once it happens , especially if its your first time..
2007-11-12 23:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by pierce_butterfly18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say dont have sex with him till he can prove to you that he cares...and not by just sending flowers but by going out of his way to do something great for you that shows that he does know you and care about you. and tell him im not gonna have sex with you till u can prove to me that you care about me
2007-11-12 23:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by I LOVE HIM<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what happened with my bf too. Except we were sorta "friends with benefits". But I think you should test his patience, wait a little longer. If he wants you that badly, I'm surehe wouldn't mind waiting.
PS- i didn't give in to mine.
2007-11-12 23:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ ♥ ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is absolutely any doubt, then i suggest that u hold out. a woman's intuition is a gift from God. trust it wholeheartedly. when the time is right, u will know beyond a shadow of a doubt.
2007-11-12 23:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likes you and wants to do it with you.
2007-11-12 23:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did say he really wants to have sex with you.
i,m afraid he is out to use you.
2007-11-12 23:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to have sex with you! omg..
2007-11-12 23:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give in....
2007-11-12 23:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by kachu_ina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋