I need advice on how to ask a girl for her number or email?

Question

I like this girl and we are both shy. We are in each others history class and we sit next to each other. I know not to just come out and ask her out but i dont know how to ask her for her phone number or e- mial adress. I would rater ask her in private when people arent nearby. i dont know where her locker is and i dont want to be a stalker. What should i do?

Answer 1

Man Im shy too, BUT U HAVE TO MEET HER OR U WILL REGRET IT, sorry but dont want you to go through what i had too.

Ok heres my story...

So im a shy guy too, and last year I saw this beautiful girl who goes to my highschool! So i talked to some people and found her name and myspace to check out what kinda stuff she was into so I could use it to start conversations.

anyways I began liking her like January last year and I couldent get her away from a big crowd to say anything to her and meet her.

She tried to give me clues she liked me by smiling at me alot and throwing corn at me at lunch, but i figured hmm ill just wait until i can get her alone to meet her....

Ya and with about a month left in school i realized ohh crap im not gunna get her alone to meet her so, i decided hmm I know she has next period with my best friend and I know they have a sub so I will sneak in there and hangout with him then go meet her casually.

But when i got in there she was absent so the whole plan was ruined... and i had to sit through Geometry class twice that day...

Anyways It turns out she transfered schools that week so I lost my shot.

And I know her last name but I dont want to seem like a creep by adding her on myspace when we never shared name or anything for that matter other than playful throwing of food and flirtacious looks

And now it drives me crazy, I found a girlfriend but "the one I let get away" drives me crazy still!! Even though I havent seen her in like 7 months I am still very Infatuated with her. Sure the new girlfriend takes the sting off it but I still find myself looking at the old crushes myspace a couple of times each week saying man I wonder what could have happened, and man I should have just ballsed up and said something because this girl is amazing.

So what they say IS true: the one that hurt the most are the ones you get away. So Take my advice JUST TALK TO HER you dont want to end up like me with a girlfriend and still totally bent out of shape because I missed my shot.

"dont let the fear of striking out get in the way of hitting all those homeruns"

P.S. I know that everyone is going to be telling you "Just say hi to her" But they are right the longer you let it build up the harder it will be.

Answer 2

Well you will have to get to know her a lot better because you say you never hung out you really don't know what she is really like because you have not been around her. Yes her number will and should be the first thing and then work your way up to meeting her even if its for a lunch date nothing fancy and you mentioned you have so much in common the 2 hours away will mean nothing because if things go well you two cant wait to see each other again......Good Luck

Answer 3

Dont say baby girl do yo have a number for starters..

Now, you dont know how lucky you are. Shy girls are A LOT easier to ask for their number and date. Since shes shy it's really easy. Just ask her for her E-mail or number so you guys can talk sometime. ( If you dont know her well, try and talk to her a bit before asking). 98% Chance is she will say yes. Other 2% is shes a lesbo or just doesnt like you and in that case, since shes shy, it wont be all over the school you got rejected so either way you win :D

Answer 4

it is a trick -- you ask under a pretext - an excuse to get in a conversation about something completely different from her phone number or email then see how the conversations go first - see how much she wants to talk - look at you etc - then lead to that slowly and you will have it. This way you can tell if she likes you or not by the conversations and do not have to bother asking her if you do not get good signs from her.

Answer 5

Just be casual. Find something that interests her and use that as a means of starting a conversation in the hallway. Once you guys talk, ask her if she wouldn't mind getting some coffee at Starbucks after school. Or just spark up a conversation over random info and keep it simple for a couple of days and then go in for the kill. Just be yourself and don't be something you are not.

Answer 6

Just say casually "We should hang out some time, maybe see a movie or something." Then see what she says. If she smiles and says yes, then just ask her if she wants your number, and when you give her your number, say like "You might as well give me yours too." Just try to be casual about the whole thing, don't make a big deal out of it.

Answer 7

Talk her up... find something about her that most people won't realize such as a new hair style or a book she reads...use a sense of humor to lure the bait and don't change your attitude or way you talk...sometimes the best approach is the sincere approach... be confident

Answer 8

start a conversation with her. then say lets finish this conversation later can i have your phone/email. asking a girl for her number isnt stalkerish i promise just make sure you give her some space by not calling her every 2 seconds.

Answer 9

do the whole thing where you want to tudy with her sometime or if you have a group project be her partner and get her number that way its not so awkward or anything that you wouldnt do out of the norm. or just give her your number instead.

Answer 10

after history say to her "hey do you want to studdy for the test with me at the library some time?" and then ask for her number

or you could

go up to her at her locker and say "hey i was wondering do you want to hang sometime?" and then "cool I'll call you"

don't let the idea of her saying no to you even cross your mind.