so guys are supossed to wear a condom to prevent getting the girl pregnant, but what about when you're marrie to the girl and want kids... You don't wear it then, right? but what about getting STD's???
2007-11-12 11:37:45 · 19 answers · asked by gododjgjodjod 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make sure shes clean
2007-11-12 11:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms are not only worn to prevent pregnancy, but to protect from disease. If you are married, you both should know each other well enough to know that you are either free from STD's, OR know what the other has, if you do, and know how to take precautions with the continued use of condoms.
The sanctity of marriage means you are only intimate with each other, and the risk of contracting an STD should be close to none.
.... its up to you and your spouses preferences, regarding condom use. When you're actually ready to conceive, and everyone is healthy, then i would say forgo the condom and start trying.
2007-11-12 11:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Sometimes I wonder why I bother with this site some of the ?"s are so immature and I cant understand why some of these ?'s are even asked...Is this really so hard to figure out....sorry don't mean to be mean but come on std's AFTER your married don't you think you should have thought about that BEFORE you got married.. your thinking of having children get tested jeez
2007-11-12 11:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course you dont want STDs so if you want kids dont use a condom but go to your doctor first to get tested to see if you or your wife has STDs. Good luck!
2007-11-12 11:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by girl with skillz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get tested for all sorts of STDs at your doctor, and a lot of them are controllable, or treatable. So, if you want to stop using condoms, go and get tested and treated if necessary, and keep an eye on your sexual health in case there is any change.
2007-11-12 11:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you're married you are supposed to both get checked before any type of "unprotected" intercourse. when you are married the thought of getting an STD shouldnt even be hypothetically considered. You and your spouse should get checked out before you have sex for the first time unprotected and if necessary every time after. but if you trust them do what you must, that is just my own opinion
2007-11-12 11:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once your married you trust that your partner is not cheating, so you don't worry about STD's. You use a condom as one form of birth control for family planning.
2007-11-12 11:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by greatlakesdude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people in relationships like that where they haven't had sex yet are both supposed to go to a doctor to get tested.
if they both test negative for STDs and they want to get pregnant then they can be safe without using condoms.
2007-11-12 11:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't have to be a virgin before you marry her but if want to have sex without a condom why don't both of you go get tested for std's and hiv/aids. then you'll know that both of you are clean.that's the smart thing to do.
2007-11-12 11:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is ignorant if you marry the girl and want to have kids I'm pretty certian by then you should know if she has any STD's or not and if they ever show up then that's a huge problem bud
2007-11-12 11:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by Stop the world I want to get off 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure if two people are married they know they dont have any STD's. If you didn't know you dont get diseases from having sex.
2007-11-12 11:41:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋