My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and it was my fault. I caused pointless arguments and then was verbally abusive when he ended it. I dont know where this came from because yes i love him and I'd like to think I'm not a terrible person but maybe I am. I've been working on trying to figure out why I acted this way so I can change it. I think I was scared because he was so amazing but why push him away? I'm also torn on whether or not to apologize or let him go. Lately Ive learned to let unimportant arguments go and vent my anger in more producttive ways but I still carry this guilt for what i did and I miss my ex terribly. What do I do? Anything at all?
2007-11-12 11:18:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call Him!!! or text or email telling him you have been doing some thinking and you wanted to say that you know you were wring alot of the time, and you are soooo sorry. See where the conversation goes.....
2007-11-12 11:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would apologize and then maybe slowly try to work things out between the two of you. You obviously care a lot for him and maybe you were just scared of commitment at the time, but now realize your true feelings. You should definitely contact him and have a long talk to let him know you have changed, good luck!
2007-11-12 11:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think apologizing is a good idea as long as you are not doing it to try and get him back and you do it with the understanding that he may not want to talk to you or may have little to say to you when he hears your apology. In other words, do it because you know it is the right thing to do, not because you think you will receive some positive response for doing it.
2007-11-12 11:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by TammyT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are sorry then by all means apologize. Even if he doesn't want you back at least he'll know that you know you were wrong. Also, you can ask him (now that so much time has passed) what you could have done differently.
Good luck to you.
2007-11-12 11:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to apologize to him! You need to let him know that you really are sorry and that you have NO EXCUSES. Tell him the truth.
As for trying to get back with him, dont even think about it! You are only going to get let down.
2007-11-12 11:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mike G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has indicated that she has have confidence subjects with you and that alterations issues. have confidence can not be gained with an trouble-free apology - it takes time. She has suggested flat out that she needs time remote from you. you should offer it to her. If she is actual going to come back back to you, she would be waiting to in case you supply her sufficient room to understand what she has in you. whilst human beings teach you who they're and inform you what they want, have self assurance THEM. She needs you to be attentive to why she would not have confidence you, to not convey regret for arguing with one yet another. and you have suggested why she would possibly not have confidence you - so positioned that throughout the time of a letter, deliver it and nicely known which you be attentive to what the subject is, and in case you're rather sorry then you definately ought to convey regret devoid of making accusations. very own your habit. do not call her. do not attempt to touch her after that. only supply her a while. i be attentive to it sounds cliche, with the full in case you love something set it loose stuff, yet subsequently it rather is lots mandatory!
2016-09-29 02:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really feel guilty about it, apologize. apologizing is a way for you relieve that guilt but it won't chang the fact that what you did is wrong and hurtful. And don't expect that by apologizing he will come back to you.
2007-11-12 11:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by sleeplesswench 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologizing when you mean it with all your heart is always a good thing to do. you will let that anger go and know you have done the right thing.
2007-11-12 11:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize, just say "im sry for the way i acted and i hope we can still b good friends, i just wanted to say im sry" throw in some more stuff if u want, tell him ur working on fixing it tht might get his attention more. if u love him tht uch tell him tht dont let tht just sink in ur heart to melt away
2007-11-12 11:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by cutegirl67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him know how you have grown. He will respect you for that. It will be up to him to forgive you. It may take some time, but atleast you won't regret not telling him.
2007-11-12 11:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by makenzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋