Okay so I have been seeing this girl for a little bit and our first kiss was last nite. I told her I would call her. I want to see her again but I do not know if I should call her today or just wait a day. I dont want to be that guy who has nothing better to do then to talk to her evryday. I guess my question is after the first kiss and 4 dates how long do or should you wait before you call her. Is there a rule? I would hate to wait too long just cause then she may make other plans. Any suggestions?
2007-11-12 11:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by Bobby H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No there is no rule call her whenever and is that how you realy look?
2007-11-12 11:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa Anne Hudgens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not like you just met this girl. If you're interested I would call sooner rather than later. Since you're worried about being the 'clingy' type guy just keep the conversation short or text message her with a quick 'Hi' or something short, sweet, and to the point.
As a female, I can't stand the stupid 3-day rule or whatever waiting period rule; it's stupid. If you like her, call her!
2007-11-12 11:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by NDimes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would make her wait but not too long...so i mean like 45-60 minutes later then when you say you do...so then it doesn't make you desprate...So if you said you would call her at oh lets say 6:00 you would either call her at 6:30/6:45/7:00...just to make her wait and then you can be like omg hey!
And then she'll be really glad you called...i bet she will be sitting at the phone waiting all night for you to call...garentee it! ;]]
2007-11-12 11:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by CinderellaGurl12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...don't play that game. If she is interested she will be happy to hear from no matter when you call. As a matter of fact , I would even tell her that you thought about her so much that you started not to call for fear of scaring her away. I think you may be shocked by how she responds.....Trust me, if she likes you she will tell to you to quit thinking so much. Never be deceptive.The games never end once they start
2007-11-12 11:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by SoleSurvivor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her right now. Don't wait a day. Some people like it when you keep your promise because it shows them that you care. Good Luck.
2007-11-12 11:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rule is there for your question, which states, 'call her when she likes to be called otherwise be ready for a one sided game.'
2007-11-12 11:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule that i know of, but you should be aware that girls hate it when men say they'll call & then dont, so get to it & stop stalling.
2007-11-12 11:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by 7ala is fluffy ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to call her, then call her. don't listen to those rules about waiting so long before calling.
2007-11-12 11:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait 4 the right time..... dont make it 2 early r late, maybe 2 days??
2007-11-12 11:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her as soon as possible --- let her know you care --- there are no fricking rules
2007-11-12 11:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋