I am a freshman (14) and my boyfriend of one month is a junior (17). Some people at my school don't approve, but my mom does. Am I too young to be with him?
2007-11-12 11:02:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it depends on what you both want out of the relationship.
From an outsider's point of view Id have to assume the 17 year old is wanting a sexual relationship and personally I think that at 14 you are too young to have that sort of relationship. If he is a gentleman and knows where you are in your life and doesnt pressure you to do ANYTHING you are uncomfortable with then Id say its probably ok.
Listen to your heart though, if you have doubts then think about it. Just dont let him pressure you into anything. Good luck :-)
2007-11-12 11:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Micky G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol i remember the first day of freshman year, it was before i had to leave and my mom said something like "oh and new rule. you cant go out with any seniors. freshman i understand the guys are all immature, sophmore is good, and juniors are ok if i approve of him." well it was a little more than that but i summed it up haha. i think that if your mom says its fine its fine. that hard part is over. if you like him dont worry about what a few random people think. look at it this way- if things really work for you guys, when your older three years wont seem like any difference at all. The one thing i leanred from high school was that its pretty stupid to let a few people get in the way of what you want to do. if you like him stay with him! =)
2007-11-12 19:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by jenni xo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a freshman too and one of my best friends that is a girl went out with a senior for about a month she was 13 and he was 17 and he completly broke her heart and compltly left her and never looked back.....he did that becasue he thought he was better than her so he just didnt care......take my advice and dont...you might think you two are compltly perfect for each other and click likeyou have never before but in the long run hes gona go off to "cool" college and you will still be in "dumb" highschool and he will dump your *** for some horny college girls.....but hey what do i know
2007-11-12 19:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by orange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the people at your school don't approve and they are students, they might be jealous. Don't worry about them. Just worry about whether you guys are happy or not. And having your mom approve is a real treat. Some moms might not.
2007-11-12 19:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I may be classified as old school but yes you are. He is close to being an adult, maturely and emotionally dating him is not what you should be about at this time. There is just too much learning that you need to help prepare yourself for your adulthood.
Please re-consider your objectives.
2007-11-12 19:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my daughter you would NOT be going out with a 17 y/o.....
2007-11-12 19:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little, because he could get in trouble with the police since he could be charged for rape, but if it's ok with your mom, go for it!
2007-11-12 19:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age dont matter
unless it 23 and 44
2007-11-12 20:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my cousin was 22 and he married a 16 year old, and they are very happy. you are fine.
2007-11-13 16:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by "Генерал Я" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope the age doesnt matter its the love that matters of all.
2007-11-12 19:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by dgh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋