into the most despicable human being in 2 years time.
2007-11-12 10:52:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
He obviously values you less than he did 2 years ago. A lot of things could have changed. Perhaps the harsh reality is that you ARE of less value than previously, or than he then believed. Or maybe he made very unrealistic assessment of your value, which isn't your fault, buy would still explain a change in his valuation of you. Perhaps his values have changed; plenty of men marry a red hot babe only to later decide that what they really want is a good wife and mother -- or vice versa. Again, not your fault but beyond your control.
If there isn't some physical problem causing personality changes (endocrine problems, mental health issues, substance abuse, sleep disorders, etc) and he hasn't changed his social milleau to a set that has negatively influenced his behavior, then you may have to sever the relationship. In my fairly long life, I have seen people just make up their minds to be onery, be no-goods, be mean, whatever. Sometimes they snap out of it, and sometimes they don't.
2007-11-12 11:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
drugs, stress, lack of attention, the on-set of puberty, wrong crowd, reason for big-headedness, reason for insecurity...
depends too if it's just the one person he's changed towards or everyone
if everyone then the top reasons true...if just the one person - jealousy or something that that person's done to anger him
men = strange
bloke i am seeing has these personality changes every month...am sure there's some type of period thing going on!
your next question should be how u deal with this person...
to start off, i'd try get an idea yourself from our answers and the, with a little preparation about how u think u should deal with the situation, ask him bout it.
try remid him of the nice times and see how he reacts too
2007-11-12 11:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a symptom of narcissistic personality disorder. People with narcissistic issues will nice the hell out of you if you have something they want. Then, later, when they realize you aren't their becconning subject, willing to do what ever they ask of you, they discard you and curse as being a lower life form.
2007-11-16 10:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People with insecurity issues often model themselves after other people who them deem cool. I had a good friend turn into a thug once his cousin came to live in our city. He followed his every move all the way to jail. :(
2007-11-12 11:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A stressful marriage . One the place all his have confidence replaced into lost and his kindness and generosity replaced into taken benefit of . a marriage wherein he replaced into lied to known. a marriage wherein his forgiveness and love replaced into used and abused ! properly , that purely my own adventure ! LOL i'm nevertheless attempting to be despicable , that's greater tricky than i presumed.
2016-12-16 06:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a traumatic experience, being treated like crap either in work or by family. if a person gets kicked enough times especially when their down they can change in a very short time.
2007-11-13 08:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by herr fugelmeister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfishness. When we think only of ourselves, our manners can go out the window and we can become rather ugly.
2007-11-12 11:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by RThrnhll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His not real and just played a part to impress you.
is harsh but reality comes around faster than we can count.
our dreams!!
2007-11-12 10:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A hateful, spiteful woman. A cheating woman.
2007-11-12 11:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being told that there really isn't a Santa ?
2007-11-12 12:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋