I have been dreaming about my real parents.?

Question

Hi my name is eliyan, i was adopted at 22 months old.I am now 13. I have been dreaming of my biological parents lately.
I honstly dont know why. I just have. In almost all of my dreams my parents die. Did that really happened to my parents??? the parents that i have now say that its not true but sometimes i think that it is. Please help me!

Answer 1

Hi, Eliyan. That sounds like a scary dream but don't worry, dreams are seldom to be taken literally. Dreaming of people dying means you are thinking about something ending, perhaps now that you're getting older, your relationship with your (adoptive) parents is changing, and you see that time when they were more parental is gone. Just a stab.

Answer 2

Hey I'm thirteen too. I understand these kind of things. Though I'm not adopted, I sometimes dream about my Grandfather. He died before I was born and I've seen a picture of him before. One time, I dreamed that he was alive and out to kill me. Anyway, I think that you're just curious about your parents. I was curious about my grandfather. That's probably why I sometimes dream about him. I don't think anything has happened to your biological parents. I think you probably have a great adoptive family and yeah. If you have these dreams, I suggest you talk to someone you can trust, maybe ask your adoptive parents if there's anyway you can talk to your real parents. That might be a way to get you to stop dreaming about them. Anyway, cheer up! :) They're fine. I can't say the same about my grandpa though...

Answer 3

Hun.....I think you are dreaming that your biological parents keep dying because they are dead to you in a sense. You can not see, feel or hear them..and on some level whether you realize it or not, you miss them very much......you are very aware of this at the age that you now are. That's all that this is. You have become very aware of the mother and father who once had you and who are very much dead to you in a sense. It is something that kids go through at certain stages in their lives, and that people go through in general who have been adopted out to other families.
Take care and may the heavens bless you.

Answer 4

it is not so unusual to have such a dream. To dream of death does not mean a physical death, but the end of something meaningful to the individual, and where there is death, there is renewal. Due to the fact you are 13 yrs old, it makes a lot of sense, you are now a teenager, an age where one slowly starts to think for themselves, starts to experience independence, starts to make their own decisions, dating, relating to others and the world around them as an adult, starts to deal with and adjust to all the major changes that will take place in their life. Therefore the dream is about you, not your parents, some at your age dream of parent, beloved pets, others they love or themselves dying.

Answer 5

Hi, i don't know what your dreams mean but I'm the same way! I'm adopted and I've been having dreams of my bio mom dying. Usually my bio dad kills my bio mom in my dream. It seems so real and I'm scared that it's true! Hopefully for both of us, these dreams are not true!

Answer 6

Your real parents are not dead But in your emotions for a long time they were dead because you felt abounded by them But now you are 13 and you have the desire to know them which is perfectely normal and one day you will meet them Good Luck

Answer 7

I think you're just curious about your real parents, and how they are.

I actually really doubt that your biological parents are dead. Unless you're a psychic or something, you wouldn't be able to know that.

I wouldn't worry about it, but if it still bugs you, ask your adoptive parents about them, and if they know anything about them.