Say your good friends with a girl. You want to make a move just don't know how to. She invites you to study with her and her house then yours and she works with you. You are afraid making a move might ruin what you have but you think she is waiting for your move. What do you do?
2007-11-12 10:42:17 · 23 answers · asked by Brian P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women love to be suprised. The best kiss is an unexpected one so just kiss her if she gets mad oh well at least you tried. (she wont get mad!)
2007-11-12 10:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by 420 4' LIFE 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask Her What She Thinks About You, If She Says Positive Things About You...Like If She Thinks Of You As More Than Friend Than You Are in Luck...Also Ask Her If You Can Buy Her Something....Never Lie To her, Always Complement Her.
Tell Her How Beautifull She Is, Dont Say Hot!, Cuz That Might Make Her Feel Different Than Saying Beautifull. So Saying Beautifull Is Better. Always Be There For Her...Tell Her She Has Nice Hair And Beautifull Eyez...And Act Like You're So Interested! You Will be Fine, Just dont Let Her Go. Enjoy It While You Can...
2007-11-12 20:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Section 8 Fan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make good conversation with her, listen to her wants and needs and if she is sending off any signals of her wanting to take it a step further. Once you listen to her wants and needs, start dropping hints. For example, if you find out she likes something, go out of your way to show you listened, even if its a small thing like her favorite starburst is the the strawberry flavored, buy some and ask her if she'd like the strawberry kind. This will show her you listen to her. Find out things you have in common (which if you are friends, you should have some ideas, right?) and ask her if she'd like to do the hobby you two have in common sometime. During this time, a little flirting is permitted, keep it light and see where it goes. Act natural, live in the now and let your heart and the vibes between you two take you to the next level of a relationship. If you do this, and act true to your feelings and to her while respecting eachothers boundaries, it should work out fine. Keep in mind things don't always happen like in the movies, if you bump heads while kissing or something awkward about it, make sure you're comfortable enough to just laugh it off. Communication and being comfortable is key. Hope this helps!
2007-11-12 18:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by pettle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do little things to show you appreciate her more as a friend. Like hug her goodbye instead of just saying goodbye. Notice something small and compliment her on it, like a pretty necklace or new haircut. She's appreciate it even more if you compliment her intelligence, sense of humor, generosity..etc. You can make a gesture by buying her a flower/something that reminded you of her when you see it. She'll appreciate the thought. She's probably also like it if you call her, text her out of the blue and mention something that happened in your day that reminded you of her. She'll like it that you thought of her, whether or not she likes you in that way. After doing some of these things and gauging her reaction to each, you'll most definately know if she likes you or not. Good luck!
2007-11-12 18:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple...you make a move. lol like another question i've answered...you guys need to stop with the "im afraid of losing what we have" bit. you wont unless she has a bf...that is bad. but you need to tell us. because if we feel the same about you...we wont wait for your move forever. you have to actually get us while you have us. lol. as weird as that sounds it makes sense if you think about it. lol good luck! and make a move, k? lol dont be freaked out.
2007-11-12 18:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by you me i'm your daisy☮ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. being a girl n all, if i had something w/a guy and i knew he felt the same way as i did, id love it if he made the move. if u want, u could always ask her how she feels or if she'd mind if u kissed her (or whatever) and if she says yes, go for it. if she says no, then u know where u stand and, maybe when u 2 are closer, u could try again. =]
2007-11-12 18:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by &Brandyleigh;; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think too much into it. Just go for it. Rejection is a part of life, but sounds like you won't be rejected. She will love your courage and confidence. The longer you wait the more awkward it will be. Have fun, butterflies are the Best part.
2007-11-12 18:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by blg22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok she must really like u to come over and study with her and she must want u to make a move beacuse two people dont study the guy makes and move just have her look at u then.........................BAM..........................u just got a girl friend take it from me im a girl and it is like the only reson she invited u so go in and make a kiss on the cheek but if more
2007-11-12 18:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by Kiddo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do something subtle but sweet. For example, for your study session, bring over a couple of hot chocolates. If that goes well, ask her if she wants to go get ice cream or see a movie.
2007-11-12 18:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kaydence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move, that's what i would do. Start a conversation with her about dating, then you can ask if she's ready to date, if she say yes, ask her out, if she say no, give her sometime. If she's interested, she'll let you know or give you signs.
Good Luck!
2007-11-12 18:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lavender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Kay about the movie thing. Just start talking about weekend plans and bring up a movie that you've been wanting to see and if she agrees that she's been wanting to see it too ask if she would like to go with you to see it, maybe suggest a group of you go and maybe after the movie you and her could go get ice cream..alone ;)
2007-11-12 18:48:39 · answer #11 · answered by OOOhla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋