there was this guy freshman year in hs that I talked to casually, I thought we were just friends, we went through whole year and at the end at a bad time he told me he liked me, I was freaked out, I didnt like him back I thought he was a freak, in sophmore year he apologized, we didnt talk much tht year, in junior year we had almost forgotten what had happened, we talked like we were friends, senior year not too many classes but I talked to him like once a week at school, now in second year of college wid him, a I still am around the same circle of friends, he is at my college too, I took not much notice until in this second year he ASKED ME OUT, he told me he's liked me this whole time my attitude 4 him has really changed, he is not tht kid who used to joke around at everything, he is now calm, mature, funny at times, he's gotten alot wiser and smarter, he's gotten really strong, my parents told me I could start going with guys but not to do too much, but I dunno
IM FALLING 4 HIM
2007-11-12 10:27:59 · 7 answers · asked by Dhoopy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
these days I think of him so often, he was always so kind to me even though he was annoying, in high skool, I wasnt as pretty as most girls but he still liked me, I wanna know is this guy right for me, I mean I declined him in 9th grade but is second year college another chance,
Ive had huge crushes on guys but I dunno I wanna actually be with this guy for the rest of my life, do u think this is the right thing to do,
He asked me out I didnt ask him, should I say yes?
2007-11-12 10:31:04 · update #1
Just go out with him, and if it turns he is not the guy he seems, break it off.
2007-11-12 10:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by jacob D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to tell yourself to not get into anything too serious until you finish college. there was a study done some time ago that often relationships that begin in college have a high rate of failure, especially i the fields of law and medicine. You can be friends for now and even date a bit but don't let anything get too serious until after college and you will be a lot happier. If this is the right guy for you, he will still be there when you finish school. and if not, you may meet someone better!
2007-11-12 10:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it a chance. He could be your true love. That is how me and my husband started out. and I could be any happier that I gave him a chance. He is the sweetest guy I know and would do anything for me and our to kids.
2007-11-12 10:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by ♥LS♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, give it a shot.
But don't forget, college is a big place. There are many fish in the sea.
2007-11-12 10:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you not dated until now? well, good luck go out with him n see where it goes from there! Just because he asked you out doesn't mean that he's going to be the one and that you'll get married and etc.
TRUST ME HONEY!
2007-11-12 10:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just from the fact you're right this looks like he might be the one. you should go out with him to be sure
2007-11-12 10:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by pavuman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds great!! you should totally go out with him. you are how old and your parents are telling you how much you can date? no offense, but cut the umbilical chord!
2007-11-12 10:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Flowergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋