Can a relationship based on bedroom activities work?

Question

I have a strong drive so can a relationship that is say 70% based in the bedroom last? I am good at what I do (I've been told) but relationships always seem to fizzle. It's like the woman just loses the drive to match me after a while and I end up begging (I like it 3x daily). They always tell me my drive is too strong, I've evenly considered hormone therapy.

Crazy thing is that after we break up....they eventually come back and ask for it more! I'm begining to think I will never find someone compatable. It's not all about that of course, but it is a strong need for me. Am I doomed?

Answer 1

i want it more than that everyday.no,you can't holla at me,im taken. just wait till you find that girl who likes it that often. my bf told me that i am out of this world.he said that he thought guys want it more,but he's wrong about me.
lol
goodluck

Answer 2

A lot of people think having sex is considered a relationship. Sure, the both of you might call it that. But actually, you're just friends with benefits. If you talk on a daily basis, yet the only activity you have is in the bedroom, that's what it sounds like to me - friends that are sexually attracted to each other.

Instead of focusing a relationship so much on the sex part, focus it more on actually getting to KNOW the person better and getting to spend time with them. Yes, sex can be a big part in a relationship, but it shouldn't be all of it.

Answer 3

You are a little doomed. Most women would find 3 times daily too much. I'm sure there must be some out there so keep looking. Perhaps you could cut back by... well... taking things into your own hands. Then you could take the time to get to know her outside of the bedroom.

Answer 4

So what if your great in the bedroom activites? What about outisde the bedroom? Social activities, things that require a brain.
Your relationship becomes based entirely on lust rather then love and those never work. Take your time with your next girlfriend and don't let your ego get so damn big.

Start thinking with your head, not your penis.

Sure sex is fun and tempting but it's better to wait, get to know the person emotionally.

Answer 5

Yes, you are doomed if you truely think this way. These women aren't loosing their sex drive, they are loosing their ability to fake three orgasms a day. It gets tiring, all that moaning and curling your toes, it can cause cramps and hoarseness. Newsflash, these women aren't coming back because you were good in bed. They're coming back because women like to keep their number of sexual partners as low as possible. After enough tequilla, sleeping with you looks better than the alternative, which is adding another name (or face) to the list. Besides, they know you'll be available. After all the pathetic begging you did, you'll definitely be alone and single.

Answer 6

Your drive is definitely hindering your compatibility. No matter how "good" a guy is if he can't converse or do anything else he becomes a chore. Relationships are more than bedroom Olympics and you should work on the interpersonal skills to improve your chances of a rich and compatible relationship. Good Luck!

Answer 7

what you really need is too calm down
3 times a day, the more you do it the less
people will be interested in you
so i suggest if you want a compatable relationship you find someone who enjoys sex, but also does not mind talking, so therefore, you will enjoy it too. and will not break up with people because u have a high sex drive
hope this helps

Answer 8

I believe everyone has someone out there. There are women that have the same issues that you do. Until you find one, you won't be able to be in a satisfying relationship. However, as long as you're happy, what does it matter? Do what makes you happy, and only stay with people that do. If a woman can't handle it, then find another one. There are more women than men, don't forget that.

Answer 9

I dont know that your doomed but you need to spend mroe time on the emotional aspects of a relationship. if a woman feels her emotional needs arnt being met she isnt going to want to have sex with you. three times a day is a little excessive for us that could even become painful maby you should talk to someone, it kind of sounds like you have an addiction (yes thats a real thing) Good luck

Answer 10

in alot of ways i think it might work,but you dont want to make your self seem as if you only want her for that one thing.alot of girls may like it but not all of them do so you have to see how the girls like and how she feels bout going to a bedroom when the relationship has just began.wait until you know shes ready,because even if your not taking her into a room to have sex with her,she may take it that way and think akot about you at first.i think someday you will find a good girl,but dont take a girl back more then 2 times.your not doomed dont worry honey youll find the perfect girl someday.

Answer 11

I feel the same way my friend......and sadly yes we are doomed. I'm with a girl that i love alot now but she, just like the others before her say exactly what the ladies told u. Personally i dont understand it, they should be glad they getting it that often......i know people that would KILL to get it that much, then when u slow down they are gonna think u are cheating.