Really don't know what I did?

Question

Well, there's this girl.
I thought she liked me. She use to in some ways flirt w/ me, I guess.
All the time she would pick me to read something after in class out loud. Now, all of this has changed.
One day, me and my friends were outside at school, talking.
She and her friends spotted us, and came up to us.
One of her friends asked me if I liked her. She was right there, but with her back turned.
I answered, "No, just as a friend.", even though I really did like her, I was just too shy to talk to her.
Ever since it feels like she hates me. She disses me now, and crap, in some ways. Never picks me.
Is it that she might have liked me, and now doesn't?
I really don't know what I did. I was even thinking about asking her out, but she like hates me now.

Answer 1

I DON'T KNOW BUT MOVE ON..PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA!

Answer 2

First of all calm down, from what you've said so far you haven't done anything wrong. It sounds like she is dissing you know because she likes you but she feels as though you don't like her and she is putting up her defenses.

When the question was asked maybe laughing it off or not really paying it attention may have been better because her friends were asking for her. That is what girls do they play games because they are just as scared of rejection as the guys.

If I were you and I liked someone I would just slip thme a note without a name and when they look around just simply smile and that's usually all it takes. Believe me she doesn't hate you! Good Luck, you seem pretty sweet.

Answer 3

She probably really did like you. Your best bet would have been to just be honest when her friend asked you. Since you said that you only liked her as a friend, she probably felt rejected. She probably feels that there is no reason to flirt with you or to persue you now because she doesn't think that you feel the same way about her as she does about you. Now the only thing that you can do is to talk to her and try to explain why you said what you did about only liking her as a friend.

Answer 4

Usually when a friend asks that means that the girl is too scared to ask. But I don't know why she'd be right there to hear your answer if she couldn't even ask you herself.

I'm thinking she wanted more than a "just as a friend line" and her change in behavior is her defense to herself making sure she doesnt get her hopes up again.

I suggest you talk to her one on one about this. If you'd like to ask her out then go for it....but make sure you two are alone.

Answer 5

listen. the only thng u did wrong was not telling her ur true feelings. i no it seems really scary and it is but if u lie to a girl about iking her of course she's gonna get mad@ . she did like u from the sound of it and that's y her friend asked u. the only way to make up for what you did is to ask her out.
(that is if u still like her) try not to be scared just write it in aa note or something like that. make sure you explain to her what happened and that u only said as a friend because u were nervous

good luck ::)

Answer 6

She felt rejected. She doesnt hate you but it's sort of a defense for her self-esteem. If you go up to her and ask to talk to her privately or if you have her number call her. Just tell her you felt awkward and shy when her friend asked you if you liked her. Tell her you do like her more than a friend and if she does too then maybe you guys could get together.

Answer 7

I wouldn't think she hates you. I think that she likes you but didn't want to let you know until she knew if you liked her. By her actions of picking you to read out loud she indicated that there was something there. And to have her friend ask you if she likes you is another way of finding out. For you to say that you didn't like her, when you did, back fired. Generally people want to like people that are interested in them. Since you told her friend, who of course told her or she over heard, she thinks you only like her as a friend and not as something more, which she probably wants.

I'd suggest talking to her and setting things straight. That you didn't want her to find out from her friend that you like her and you wanted to tell her yourself, and that's why you told the friend that. Of course tell her in a very complementary way and you'll be back in her good graces. Good luck!

Answer 8

She probably is just ignoring you because she thinks you dont like her. She could have picked you because she thought you liked her and she liked you but when you said that you didn't, she could have gotten mad or upset and just decided to pick someone else. I dont really know if this helps but thats the best i can think of. Thats what I would think if a boy's friend asked me if i liked them n i said no n then he all of a sudden stopped pickin me n stuff. Ya kno?

Answer 9

Hun, you hurt her feelings. She got her girlfriend to ask you how you felt because she was afraid to. You said you didn't like her. BIG MISTAKE...now the only thing you can do is try to get her alone and explain to her that you were too shy to tell the truth. Hopefully she will understand. If not...well you missed your window of opportunity. Good Luck

Answer 10

Oh my dear son, you don't know women yet, they are like that !!! of course she likes you, you never know what she told her friends about you, but your answer "No, just friends" just let her down... Look, if you really care about her, then talk to her, explain why you did answer that way... tell her that if she would have asked you in private, you would have answered otherwise.. she dose not hate you, go and try, don't be shy..
May God bless you.

Answer 11

My guess would be that she really did like you, then got her feeling's hurt when you said you only liked her as a friend. I think what you have to do now is to just be honest with her. You have to tell her that you like her, but were just to shy to tell her that before. She'll appreciate you telling her the truth.

Good luck!