do you think the sparks would still fly? Everyone always saysits the person inside they are attracted to. But honestly, are we really being honest here? women and men... Is your boyfriend attractive. Let's see some honest answers people!
2007-11-12 08:25:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES! I wouldn't care of the guy looked like the Elephant Man (not to single anybody out or cause offense). Looks do nothing for me in the long run. Sure when you first see someone you are obviously going to think if they are ugly or not, but I am so well past looks that it really wouldn't matter.
2007-11-12 08:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Vera C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to watch the 70's film, "Why Me." It's a true story about a beautiful nurse who has a terrible car accident and her husband sticks by her but when he finds she will never look the same, he leaves. However her doctor creates a new surgery that will allow him to reconstruct her mouth and give her back her looks. The doctor loved HER for who she was inside. He loved her so much, he had to petition the courts to allow this surgery to happen for the woman he loved. He spent YEARS trying to give her back what she'd lost. But he fell in love with HER before he made her beautiful. It's my opinion that the body is just a shell that we use for a little while while we're here on earth. Because of initial attraction (which our maker built in all of us to keep the human race going) we are of course attracted by physical attraction. But have you ever felt a "connection" with someone you've never seen and only spoken with? For example, I've known my boyfriend for over 20 years. I knew basically what he looked like but hadn't seen him in forever. We spoke on the phone for 10 days before we got together for the first time in years. From this connection, I knew that even if he'd become a funky-looking troll, this was the guy I was going to spend the rest of my days with. He didn't know that, but that's the case. If he ever has an accident and either isn't himself or doesn't look like the person I know, I'd love him exactly the same and nothing would change. I'd care for him if he needed me. In my opinion, men are more visual and for them there is an initial physical attraction. But speaking only from my own perspective, from the moment I heard his voice on the phone 9 months ago, there could never be anything that could change my mind about him. No matter what he looked like in person.
2007-11-12 09:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO I'm not bad looking and fit for my age> large or not attractive is not for me>I guess that's why I"m single>>
2007-11-12 08:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, If they have a good personality.
2007-11-12 11:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by momma 2 Sydney 9-8-09 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummm....
Awwww.... gonna have to say NO...I would not date an ugly person...
How bout you Mr. Music Man??
2007-11-12 08:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugly is fine but not out of shape. if a guy is fat that shows me he doesnt respect his body.
2007-11-12 10:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋