i am a rebel.......
and i am really bad to my mom.......(sometimes i feel like my family doenst understand me)
i say a lot of bad words!!!!!
and i try to be nice!!!!
but i dont know wats wrong.........??????
i would say....im 6/10 nice.......
2007-11-12 08:19:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Being a rebel is one thing. Being rude, disrespectful and hurtful is another thing entirely.
A rebel is someone who generally has a cause that they stand up for. The cause is usually not widely accepted at the time. For instance kids that stood up for rock and roll, when society was against it, were rebels.
It sounds like you are trying hard to assert your independence and that you are wanting more freedom and to be treated less like a child. There is nothing new or wrong with that. However, screaming, yelling, cursing and treating people badly is only showing them how immature you are.
If you want to be treated like an adult, you're going to have to act like one and if you want respect you'll have to treat others with respect and earn it.
Good Luck!
2007-11-12 08:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
temperament is a mysterious thing, on one hand you want to be nice, but you instinctively turn on those around you. And the closer they are the more defensive you become it seems. I'm no expert but I have a similar temperament that's all. All I can say is bite your tongue ( not literally of course) and think of what your about to do before you do it, who's it going to hurt and why do you want to do it. If you really want to stop no matter how bad of a habit it is, you'll stop
2007-11-12 08:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by shojin_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called being a brat, not a rebel. It seems that the people that you are meanest to are the ones who love you the most---how messed up is that?
2007-11-12 08:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably the people you hang around.
Or the way you were raised.
Try your best to stop, I'm sure you mom is very hurt about you being really bad to her... And most parents don't understand kids.
2007-11-12 08:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just being a teen. Try talking to your family.
2007-11-12 08:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by _adoRkable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like you need to be accepted by your parents. They can't control what you believe.
2007-11-12 13:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Brendan D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can change if they want to badly enough. It's up to you!
2007-11-12 08:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋