we have only been going out for 4 days
but i need to break up with him
cuz he flirts alot [right infront of me too]
i dont wanna tell him thats y
&plus i like someone else
&it just seems like me & him r different
&he barely said a word to me today
2007-11-12 07:10:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"this isn't working out."
2007-11-12 07:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Claudia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy myself and I too know that I flirt a lot. I also know that if I got a girlfriend I would probably flirt in front of her too. Just he kind of guy I am. It is meaningless flirtation but I still do it. Hypothetically speaking, if you and I were the ones together and you wanted to break up with me, I would want you to tell me exactly why. If I were you I would say that at first you liked him and thought that he was a cool guy and someone you could get along well with. But now that you are together you realize that he is a different person than you and that it isn't really working out. You are sorry but you think that you should break up and see other people. From there I don't have anything but I hope that helps you.
2007-11-12 07:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Flare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this exact same scenario. I'm 15. I would say, "(insert name), I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, and I hope it doesn't hurt your feelings, but I want to break up with you. I don't like how you flirt with other girls, and I think you're different as a bf then a friend [assuming you are friends]. Also, I like somebody else, and it wouldn't be right to lead you on. I hope you continue to be friends with me."
Good Luck!
2007-11-12 07:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by x.sweetness06.x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl... Honesty is what comes first. Tell him to go milk a cow because you don't like how he acts (flirts) with others. Don't sugar coat anything. Be straight up and get it done.
Say the following:
"Look, excuse me for being blunt. I don't like how you flirt with other girls. I am into that and besides I don't like you that much. So, we are done."
Don't make up excuses. Tell him the truth. That's respectable. If you go around the bush and make up a dumb excuse, that speaks poorly of your character.
Blunt truth is the best tool to lead a life. Don't fall into all the drama/emotional/politically correct scene. Be direct and straight forward.
2007-11-12 07:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by SICARIUS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't been dating long enough for this to really be an issue. Just tell him that you don't think things are going to work out between the two of you! And that's that...you don't have to say anything more. Appearantly from the fact that you say he hasn't talked to you much today, he may be already feeling the same way!
2007-11-12 07:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that we were meant for each other and I think you feel the same way too, so I think that we should break up. ...........................Just before you break the news to him, make sure that he considers you as his gf, because since you guys have only been going out for 4 days, there is a possibility that he may not see you as his gf. Good Luck. I hope I helped.
2007-11-12 07:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here:
"Hey ________. I think we need to talk. You've barley said a word to me in the last _________ days, Why? Since we got together you've escelated into somebody else. I hate to say it, but we need to break up. This is not what I'm looking for. I'm still young, and I want somebody who CARES for me. I can't like you anymore. We need to end it. Sorry, but that's how it has to be"
hope that helped x
2007-11-12 07:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by jasyboi 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
since uve only been dating for 4 days, it doesnt have 2 be very sensitive
just say....
i want to break up, obviously were not working because you are not very interested in me.
when u walk away.. watever u do dont trip :D
embarressing! <3
2007-11-12 07:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Holly H <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him that you guys should see other people and You don't like the idea of him flirting in front of you.That you two are two Different People
2007-11-12 07:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lover, I posted a question on Yahoo! Answers to find out exactly what to say to you to break up with you. Here's the best they came up with...
You are a pathetic little girl. Grow up.
2007-11-12 07:17:09 · answer #10 · answered by newdad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
text him and say that you dont think this relationship would work out and it is better to part ways.when you meet him next just greet him with a friendly hi and end it up there.that is the best way and it really works
2007-11-12 07:15:29 · answer #11 · answered by sweet girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋