Why do men like to do this?

Question

Why do men want to share a woman? Especially my boyfriend? What is he and his mates getting out of having sex with me in front of each other?

When I ask them they say they really like me but then I think they dont listen to anything I say i.e using condoms!

Why does it not upset my b'friend to see men have sex with me? Why does he get off on it???

Answer 1

Some guys like it like that.

Have you ever watched guy's pornography?

It can be a badge of honour to have a girl who is desired by other guys.

It _IS_ considered unusual or even deviant to GIVE the girl to the other guys.

However, in some circles it can be seen as a form of control - domination, submission.

Interesting stuff.

But I agree with the concerns voiced by the other people. In many cases this can be unhealthy for relationships. If you are feeling degraded in a way that you do not want to be, by all means you should get out of there quick as you can.

Answer 2

I don't think you have a boyfriend. You sound like a toy for these guys. You might want to stay away from all of these guys. Especially the one that says hes your "boyfriend".

Answer 3

Oh you have to figure this out, if your boyfriend loved you he wouldn't want to share you! They are using you as a sexual object thats it.. Get out of there and get yourself some self esteem and some tests for some STD's ..

Answer 4

Why the f*ck are you having sex with him and his friends anyway? Men are only going to do to you what you let them. You don't seem to have any boundaries yourself if this is okay with you.

Answer 5

Sweety, Why do you allow him to let his friends do this to you? YOU need to stop him, them then dump his tail..... They are all using you.