My mom and i were going shopping yesterday at king soopers and we drive a very small darango... and my mom has 10 kids who she brought with.. so of cousre we are all packed(illigealy) but anyways we beat a couple into a parking spot and went shopping. When we came back to our car we noticed a note in the window and itt reed: Get a bigger car for your 5 kids you dumb mexican whore! I was shocked!! and all my mom could say is "it's 10!" waht would you do??
2007-11-12 06:34:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
what can you do? you don't know who left the note. I would, however, try to get a larger vehicle. It is unsafe and illegal to have 10 kids in a durango
2007-11-12 06:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure which of you saw the space first but, it's a little rude if you "steal" a spot, if you did. If you didn't some people just taking parking personally and get upset if they weren't quick enough so that's probably why she left the note or maybe she's just racist and ignorant. The reason squeezing more people in a car than there are seat belts to hold them is because it's dangerous but it's extremely difficult when a parent is alone and has that many children to care for. Try telling mom to invite a friend shopping and take two large vehicles OR have dad bring another vehicle OR pool money together to trade in mom's vehicle for a large passenger van for a Christmas gift! And don't pay attention to that lady's silly note. Maybe she was having a tough day and you know your mother's not a whore so, who cares what that lady says!
By the way, if you run across anyone else who makes a racist comment, be sure to tell them to watch the movie Crash and you should to if you get a chance. It's a good one
2007-11-12 06:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by Shauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how rude of them but i don't know much u can do unless u saw there plates and report them for harrasment but i do know this
what goes around comes around
anyways my mom used to babysit alot of kids at one time and shove us all in the car to get ice cream ( i think there was 12 and she had a little mustang) lol
and use can look back and laugh remember when mom shoved all 10 of us in the car
she's just mad because use beat her to the parking spot
2007-11-12 06:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by cinnamon apple 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Toss the note in the nearest trash bin, and shake it off. There are ignorant, rude and cruel people out there who are not worth a moment of your mother's worry.
2007-11-12 10:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearie,
What would I do? Practice proper shopping center etiquette and some courtesy for a change. If someone has indicated that they are waiting for a space, let them have it.
Perhaps then you will collect fewer windshield notes.
Have a nice day!
2007-11-12 06:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Emily Litella 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it is dangerous to ride around like that. The person who wrote the note didn't have to make it personal. "get a bigger car" would have been enough.
2007-11-12 06:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? My comment is, I really don't know why people are so cruel and mean. We are getting so nasty and intolerable of others. You would think with globalization, people would embrace our differences and welcome learning beyond our little world of prejudices. We are not our parents, we are smarter than that, the world depend on us breaking away from our parents' narrow-minded thinking.
2007-11-12 06:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Nettajay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could just pretend it didn't happen or take it to the police..but i dont tink they'll do anything because you probably didnt chack the licence plate on the car so they wont be able to help you
2007-11-12 06:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i mean i wouldnt really worry about it because the isnt to much you can do about who other people express their opinions, espically when their not around. so just pray about that! as for your mom's comment......she has great math skills
2007-11-12 06:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Diva 5 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is brush it off. People are always going to be mean. Just dont let it get to you.
2007-11-12 06:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by clbowman06 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋