is he just not that into me?

Question

if he says that he'll call me to get together and then i don't hear from him?

meanwhile he was texting me everyday to see how i was etc. and now after he wanted to get together...nothing.

Answer 1

I am a 48 year old with much experience with this. If a person says they will call you and they don't that means that there are other things they would rather be doing. Also, saying, "I'll call you and we'll get together later" could just be a nice thing to say and not necessarily something they are really going to do.

Answer 2

It seems like today guys are doing the whole "don't call too soon and seem desperate" thing that girls do. I would give him a week since roughly 4 days is the standard. Chances are if he hasn't called you back, he also might just be a casual dater who doesn't connect with one girl, he doesn't want to be tied down, and he's out having fun. Don't wait around for him, see other guys, if this guy calls you back for another date, go for it, but don't let him be the only guy if you're not the only girl. You can be seeing better guys who will call you back right away other than wasting time on the one who didn't.

Answer 3

How long have you been waiting?

When it becomes evident that he's not calling out of neglect or uncertainty, rather than because he's had some unavoidable interference, then yes, he's not that into you. So if he was supposed to call yesterday but you haven't heard yet, there's still hope; if it was last week and you know he's not been hospitalized or renditioned, then no.

In which case, feel free to continue to meet people and eventually you'll find someone who IS that into you. Or maybe he'll clear out his head and get back to you before anyone else makes an impression.

Answer 4

He probably got caught up doing something. It could also mean that he REALLY likes you and was to nervous....but that is pretty lame, so he'll never admit it. Plus more information is needed, if you just met each other, than the above is probably the reason, if you've been seeing each other for a while, and don't schedule another date pretty soon, he is probably avoiding you but doesn't have the heart to tell you.

Answer 5

thats a sing he might not be that into you. If he does this once then its not a big deal. Did you wait the whole day because boys will make you wait lots of the time so will girls. If he keeps on blowing you off then yeah he is not into you at all. Wait to see if he calls you the next day to say he is sorry.

Answer 6

That's what i did about 3 weeks a go to somebody, and i know it was not right to not call and at least re shelude, but few things didn't go right, plus i lost a lots of money, got big *** ticket, and i didn't want her to see me being worried, i won her to see me 100% :). I'm sure maybe if we ever move forward with our friendship, i wouldn't despaired like that, so is he perhaps? Could be a lots of reasons, depends how he reacts with you, and that's up to you to decide

Answer 7

well u can look at it 2 ways

1. he just not into you
2.he is just to busy at this time to call and get together

Answer 8

Yep, you're right. If he was into you, he'd at least make time
to call you, text you or email you to say he's crazy busy at
work this week, or out of town, or whatever. If he doesn't care
enough to do that, he's just not that into you. Time to move on.

Answer 9

Yea sounds like hes not that into you. Or maybe you haven't given him enough time. I know guys like toplay games and wait a certain amount of time before they call you so they don't seem to eager.

Answer 10

Sweetie, I think you already know the answer.

There's too many guys in the world to sit around and wait for one to call you. Find someone who thinks enough of you to keep his word. Trust me, he's out there.