Is there any such thing? I'm (not alltogether happily) having sex with my b'friend and 3 of his friends at the same time. Is this dangerous? They say they are clear of STD's and my b'friend says they are whenever I suggest condoms he goes mad so I back off!
Also from a mans opinion, what do these men think of me? My b'friend tells me how lucky he is but I don't know if he means it or is just sweet talking me into keeping on doing this for him?
2007-11-12 06:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm confused? Why an angel???
2007-11-12 06:21:01 · update #1
Some guys like it like that. I think they feel that you are a sl*t - but I think they like the idea of having sex with BECAUSE of that.
Although here I see you say - "not altogether happily". This is a cause for concern. If you are unhappy with this. You certainly should get out of the situation. Go back to your parents or stay with your friends. Or even just tell your boyfriend and his mates that you are unhappy with it and it must end.
I agree with the concerns voiced by the other people. In many cases this can be unhealthy for relationships. If you are feeling degraded in a way that you do not want to be, by all means you should get out of there quick as you can.
2007-11-12 23:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is dangerous! Have they actually showed you proof that they are STD free? Are you just going off of what they are telling you? How do you know that they are not sleeping around with other unprotected? As far as condoms go your b-friend is dumb for wanting to use it. If you are not comfortable doing this then don't do it. I think these men see you as a sperm bucket sorry to be so blunt. They are probably talking badly about you behind your back and think that you are very promiscuous they do not respect you and see you *** trash. Someone that they can just use.
2007-11-12 06:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by code1304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly they think you're a slut and have no respect for you. By your actions you obviously have no self respect, but if you want to prevent getting and std or pregnant make them use condoms. Never take a persons word, they will say anything to get what they want. Sorry but you're not lucky you're a fool and your boyfriend sees that and is using you. Sex doesn't make a man love or stay with you, as soon as you stop he will leave. Work on your self esteem and learn to have some dignity and respect for yourself and your body.
2007-11-12 06:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you settling for this? Your boyfriend doesn't love you. You are doing something you don't want to do. Is your self esteem so low you got to be at this level? He is telling you to step out in front of the train and see if it going to hurt. You know the answer to that already. I wonder if I married you what would you do for me? He getting that and he is just your bf. Imagine that!
2007-11-12 06:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the a- hole if i had a waoman that would not be happening he obviously doesnt have any respect for you and if you let this keep happening i see more problems 4 you down the road in this relationship wake up
2007-11-12 07:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're being USED.
Seriously what would possible posses you to be his toy that he shares with his friends? That's what his Xbox or Playstation are for, not his girlfriend.
Make your way away
2007-11-12 06:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you dont have a boyfriend you have boyfriendS and if he cared anything about you he wouldnt let his friends do you and especially with no protection you need to get out of this relationship or relationships fast
2007-11-12 06:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r still an angel, but you'll regret this later in life!!
2007-11-12 06:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg did you just say you had sex with 3 of his friends?? can you spell W-H-O-R-E
2007-11-12 06:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
S-L-U-T
2007-11-12 06:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by leprechaun3833 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋