So anyways I never ever gave him a chance to to take me out on a date until this past weekend. Well guess what, I did the deed w/ him on Friday under the influence of alchohol and pot. Now I feel a little stupid about it. He didn't call me all weekend but sent me texts about his weekend being shitty b/c of the dealership messed up his truck and he was carless since Saturday morning. He apologized via text for not talking to me all weekend on Sunday night. So my question is, how should I handle this? What would you do if you were me?
2007-11-12 05:28:15 · 14 answers · asked by s9j6j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS. EVERYTHING WAS MUTUAL! I WAS CONSIEOUS THROUGH THE WHOLE DATE!
2007-11-12 06:09:10 · update #1
I was Conscious and so was he. Everything was mutual.
2007-11-12 06:12:05 · update #2
Act like it doesnt bother you...Personally you are the one that was under the influence of both substances if you did not want to do it then you should have stayed away fromt the substances plain and simple the I was drunk or high excuss is a lame one nice try..You wanted to sleep with him and you did just play it cool
ps dont you know if you want a guy to call back you gotta keep mystery...sorry but I think you just need to move on!!
2007-11-12 05:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by MissingLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could Not do the deed under the influence of pot and alcohol on the first date anymore.
You won't feel near as stupid then.
Trust me, been there done that.
We all make mistakes, it does not mean that we are a bad person. Look at the bright side. You must have learned something or you would not have felt stupid about it.
Love and blessings Don
2007-11-12 13:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. He is probably "after" someone at half his stops. The UPS man meets alot of women during his work day and works too late too have much in the way of a relationship. The way to handle it is to keep doing it when you feel like it because thats most likely what he is doing. Keep in mind that all his friends at UPS already know he has been with you. No need to feel stupid , it happens all the time.
Signed THE UPS MAN
2007-11-12 13:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by scorer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was after you for 4 years without any returned affection/caring from you? He seems like stalker-material. And then he has sex with you and then oesnt even give you the respect to call and ask that your okay? Thats not cool. Texting isnt the same as having a conversation. MOVE ON GIRL!
2007-11-12 13:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by juniper555 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is really into you, you would have heard from him over the weekend by phone. Just because you had sex with him don't assume you are now a couple. He probably got what he wanted from you after the 4 year chase and has moved on.
2007-11-12 13:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you were both careless. question is, cold sober, and in the light of day, do you really want to see each other again, get to know each other? If so, admit all that, and see what happens. What's to lose? Right now, you're both jerks. Maybe you can laugh about it. And more...
2007-11-12 13:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text him back, and say "we need to talk". tell him in person, it was a mistake you made. ask him to consider it is a one night thing, it will never happen again. after that, you may not have to see him again, unless you work with him at UPS.
2007-11-12 13:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off POT. It's illegal and it's making you slutty. You should be ashamed of yourself for being that easy!!!!! I feel for the poor UPS guy. He should go get tested right away!!!!
2007-11-12 13:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are just plain bad in bed.Or too easy!
2007-11-12 13:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ignore him
dump him
throw the finger at him
lol!
2007-11-12 13:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋