I have been divorced for a couple of years. My daughter is all grown up and in College. Life was only about work & pretty boring so I got
When I told my mom about my new buddy she said:
Do you agree with that??
2007-11-12 05:24:41 · 23 answers · asked by Jane Marple 7 in Pets ➔ Dogs
No I don't agree. To be honest I think its a good decision on your part. You were looking for some companionship and someone to give your love to. Since you hadn't already found that in a person you had two choices - give your love and attention to someone who isn't what you want - leading to emotional trauma at the least .... or .... get a pet. Personally I think getting a pet was a great decision - it allows you to fill your need to love and be loved. If you still feel you are lacking something, this gives you the ability to meet some of your needs while looking for the person to take care of the rest. Lets face it - pets are great - but they don't take the place of a human partner. They can be a great addition to your life and help fill certain needs while looking for a true matched partner.
2007-11-12 05:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by rose1077 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's okay all Mothers think their daughters need a husband, it goes with the territory. I have a divorced friend in her 60s, she has a great job, 2 cats and is very contented. Being bored isn't the worst thing that could happen to anyone, if you had a bad marriage you'll know that's true. And, besides who would want a man anyway who doesn't like dogs? Good luck.
2007-11-12 16:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Little Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I don't see why having a dog would prevent anyone from meeting new people (for friends or for a relationship). I know plenty of people with dogs and their dating life really isn't that much different than those people I know without dogs.
And heck, it gives you more opportunity to meet other dog lovers. You can take your dog for a walk in the park and have an excuse to strike up a conversation with the attractive man who is also out walking his dog.
(Just maybe crate the dog before any 'adult play', the man may not want a wet dog nose on his butt, especially early on in the relationship.)
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2007-11-12 13:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by abbyful 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not agree, your a busy person and coming home to a dog that waiting for you everyday is a smile on ur face. When the time is right u will meet a man that u will enjoy so right now just enjoy Duncan and don't pay attention to ur mom!!!!!
2007-11-12 13:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by babyblue50000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... sort of. My friend and I both have dogs, she is a little older than me and single, and hasn't really dated much or at all since she got hers 2 years ago, and hasn't had a real relationship at all. I'm in a relationship, but honestly, if this one ended, I wouldn't go looking for another one. I don't think it's that you can't find men who would date you with a dog, it's just that after a while, you don't really care much about finding a guy, because your dog is more loving and loyal than a man could ever hope to be.
If you're trying to date, try www.datemypet.com, www.animalattraction.com, or www.mustlovedogs.com - they are like Eharmony, except it's for pet lovers only! :-) That way you can find guy who has a dog that HE adores, and your pups can play while you guys... do whatever. ;-)
2007-11-12 13:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamer 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it is great that you got a dog!!! They are such great companions. I meet so many more people because I have a dog!
Think about how much more time you spend outdoors with a dog versus not having a dog. You can meet people walking through your neighborhood.....or I've met people just from going to the dog park. I walk my dog downtown and people stop all the time to talk....so I think having a dog as it's advantages. Plus, it would be great to meet a guy that also loves dogs.
2007-11-12 14:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by Megz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I adamantly disagree. I actually judge single women with no pets-pets show a certain amount of maternal (or paternal) instincts that are helpful for a healthy relationship with or without kids.
Dog parks and dog related outings are a great way to meet people.
Im about to join a big dog owners group in my town that I found through meetup.com
2007-11-12 13:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Showtunes 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not single, but I disagree with that. A lot of times dogs actually help you meet people. I meet new people every day who are interested in my dog. And just because you have a dog, that doesn't mean you are never going to go out again. Don't worry about that comment.
**I agree with Playerette. I wouldn't date a guy who didn't like dogs.
2007-11-12 13:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Stark 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would rather live with my dog than a man......been there done that. Your dog will be a great sense of comfort and friendship to you. There are plenty of men out there that like dogs....you will meet someone if it is meant to be. You can be happy even if you aren't in a relationship at the moment.
2007-11-12 14:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by deb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way!! In fact, Duncan could help you meet a man. Take him to a dog park and you may run into a single, dog-loving, man!
2007-11-12 13:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by curly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋