there's this boy i really like!! what do i do???

Question

well
there is this boy. he is in the year above me and i really like him. i speek to him on msn and also in the libarey occationaly after school.

we always make jokes about how we like other people. like joking around.

a cople of weeks ago he asked who i liked on msn. i said i like another boy even tho i liked him. he wouldent tell me who he like. he said he didnt like anyone.

also the other day me him and acople of his freinds and other people were talking in the libery and i made a joke about one of his friends hair.

the next day another freind of his, came 2 me saying the boy i liked told him and that it was realy funny.

i realy like him and dont know what to do?
im realy shy btw
and i cant see myself just saying "hey i like you"

please helpp!!
im desperate

p.s sorry about the spelliing. im dislexic and the spell check wont work. not that it has anythink to do with the question. is just peple on yahoo have commented on it haha.

p.p.s haha im in high school.
9th grade.

Answer 1

haha im sry ur dislexic, but anyway, i think you should just try a couple moves on him, see what he does, like try to flirt a little more!! sounds like he may be into you... but there are some mixed signals... good luck

Answer 2

Hey girl.
Slow it down. You seem really boy crazy. I looked at some of your other questions and they're all about boys! Boys are not the focus here, especially if you are in high school or even below. I know its hard to hear, but you need to concentrate on your schoolwork and yourself. However, I can't tell you what to do, and I still want to help you. If you really like this guy, I guess I could give you some flirting help.

1. When you talk to him, smile a lot and just be friendly towards him without seeming like a desperate, psychopath.

2. Listen to what he has to say. Look into his eyes when he talks and make it a strong eye contact. Make sure you don't just stare at his lips so when he stops talking you can actually reply.

3. When its your turn to talk. Be yourself. Occasionally touch his shoulder or tilt your head to the side to look attentive and innocent.


Try not to be too obsessed with this boy, okay? You have the rest of your life to date!

Answer 3

Wow, this one was long... poke him with a pencil. What are you in junior high? high school? Take a deep breath, walk up to the little man and say I like you dammit! And wait for a responce. Well not with those words but you get it. If he really didn't like you then it was better to know asap than keep having these thoughts in your head. those are the worst to have especiall ywhen there are more important things at hand like work and school...good luck and don't be shy, it's 2007 for God's sakes!

Answer 4

keep talking to him, play a game called 20 questions its a good game to play when you just meet also tell him that the boy you said you liked really disapointed you by smoking pot or something like that and so now you have your eye on someone elce. Do NOT tell him its him that you like leave the line open and mistery in the conversithons
P.S. i also have dislexic and cant spell to save my life good luck

Answer 5

you need to stop beating around the bush and get up the nerve to say that you like him directly. tell him you enjoy speaking with him online and hanging with him in the library, and ask him if he feels the same way. tell him you only said you liked the other guy because you were afraid to come right out and say it was really him that you like, because you weren't sure if it's really you that he likes. nobody likes being rejected, but you have at least a 50% chance of him saying yes.

Answer 6

I'm sorry,hun, but there is no other way for you to to say, "I like you." than just plain saying it. Just be yourself and take that chance. So what if he doesn't like you? Then just know that he knows, and that there's no hard feelings between you two. Take a chance, because you never know the outcome out of it, if you don't try.

Answer 7

Number one why lie in the first place? If you like this boy just tell him in a suttle way. Tell him when you are on msn

Answer 8

Well if you are shy msn could be a perfect place to tell him how you really feel. If you don't wanna jsut come out and say hey I like you maybe bring up who you like occasionlay and if he asks you who you like jsut tell him you like him.Hope things work out.!:)

Answer 9

haha well this brings back memories.. My boyfriend asked me that same question but on aim but i told him i liked him.. just tell him how you feel its only on the computer you know its easier than in person.. it sounds liek he likes you because i have asked him before and he said i dont like anyone also.. =) good luck

ps. we have been together for 2.5 years now =)

Answer 10

Just talk to him your gonna miss your chance whats the worst that can happen? I had the same problem but after he thought i didnt like him he got a girlfriend!!!hope it helps!!!:)