I did fancy this girl of my age and shes bi but no one knew. Back then, I couldn't decide if I was bi or not either. But then she did something evil to one of my best friends and now I hate her. I haven't fancied any other girls yet but now I'm really confused. I haven't told anyone because I think if I tell them and suddenly change my mind, then I'm stuck. Also, I'm worried they won't like me as much and be nervous around me and one of my best friends hates bisexual poeople and takes the mick out of them.
HELP! =[
No answers answers please!
2007-11-12 03:49:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sounds to me like you are bi-curious. You won't know if you're bi until you actually try being with a girl. And then to be truly bi, you gotta enjoy being with both genders. You can be bi and prefer one gender over another, but still engage with both.
If you try it and don't like it, or ever do it again with anyone except men, then you are not bi, but heterosexual. Nothing wrong with that either.
Actually, there's nothing wrong with any kind of sexual experience unless it hurts (either physically or emotionally or both) another person.
2007-11-12 04:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by scottclear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, everyone has this question at least once or twice in they're life. Just because you felt really close with another girl with unanswered questions, doesn't mean your bi. With how the media is today it would make anyone confused. I honestly feel your not. Besides it's unhealthy and we weren't made for that reason. I wouldn't tell anyone as of yet. You felt this what, Once? Chances are, your not. You just had a really strong emotional tie with this person that your questioning. Who knows maybe because she is bi. You have to grow and learn how your feeling's really work before saying. But, if you were to act on it and then realized it wasn't for you, it could really messed you up inside.
2007-11-12 04:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are really the only person that can answer this. I have been friends with this girl for about 10 years and about 2 years ago she admitted she is bi and nothing has changed between us. We are sill as good of friends as we always were. Good luck!
2007-11-12 03:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Girl Rylin 5/3/08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am bisexual and I don't even really believe in 100% homosexuality or heterosexuality.. To me it's just sexuality. Sure, you develop preferences but I think whoever thinks homosexuality or bisexuality are wrong are in denial.
2007-11-12 07:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by sexy one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely experience something... theres nothin wrong to experiment. Try it out.. I think personally think its hot! =)
2007-11-12 03:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny Pumps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think every living thing is bi :D
2007-11-12 03:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having thoughts or feelings doesn't necessarily make you this or that, it's ACTING on them.
2007-11-12 04:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋