I am almost 16 soon. I have been inlove with Joel since I was 13. I know you hear these stories and say, "What does she know? She's only 15." We started dating on 7-6-06. We did everthing right, waiting a month to say I love you, wanting to feel it inside of us. He and I were perfect, male and female forms of eachother. We were inlove. We had everything planned out. We knew we were meant for eachother. After a little less than a year of being together, we started fighting. Big fights, he and I have had several personal issues in the past. Trying to get through them was hard. He moved 45 miles away in Feb or '07 which added more of a damper to our relationship. On 11-8-07,he broke up with me. He said the distance was too much, missed me all the time, and I hurt him. I didn't realize . He said he wasn't sure If he still loved then the next day, he said he didnt love me. I love him. I would do anything to have him back, i love him. I am heartbroken. Plese help me.
2007-11-12 03:35:43 · 7 answers · asked by sarahbell515 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-11-12 04:00:11 · update #1
Man you must really love him if you have the exact dates. Tell him what you told us.
2007-11-12 03:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by WHO-DEY!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So it really sounds like you guys had something special together. Definitly give him a call. Don't jump right back on him by saying that you still love him...just talk with him about everything that had happened. Like you guys were friends again. Then eventually when you think the time is right, tell him how you feel about him again. Maybe by this time his trust will grow for you and he may also realize what you guys had, and what he's missing out on now.
2007-11-12 11:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by forever_xx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you really miss him and hope that he wants to work it out with you as much as you do with him. Tell him everything that you feel and how sad you are and maybe he'll feel the same way. If he doesn't, however, you should just move on because it's not healthy for you to be feeling like this all the time. And remember that everything happens for a reason and that if it wasn't meant to work out then it won't. He will still be in your life, so be grateful for that. Good Luck.
2007-11-12 11:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by DCD4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't get him back. The relationship is over.
The sooner you learn that, the sooner you can move on with your life. We all have a major heartbreak or two in our lives - this is one of yours.
Give yourself a couple of days to cry and feel sorry for yourself, then take a shower, put on some cute clothes and go hang out with your friends.
2007-11-12 11:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by monicanena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u still talk 2 him?? This is reallllyyyyyyyy sad....! OK now listen up....... ask him the reason for not loving u and y he just said it all of a sudden............! If u know any friends of his who likes seeing both of u together then dont hesitate 2 get some help....... try ur best.........!! lets say try till this new year............But if it doesn't work out then i guess there is some1 better in life...........TRUST ME ON THAT.............The same thing happened to me but in my case he moved almost a 1000 miles............! I spent years not being myself but it changed..........! so moral of the story is that..............EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR THE BEST!!!!!;-)
2007-11-12 11:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about him move on, if he wanted 2 b w/ u he wouldn't have moved 45 miles away. don't try 2 get this scumbag back.
2007-11-12 11:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone, give him time to get his self together. another fish will jump out the sea, and when he See's you with another boy he will then know what he had.
2007-11-12 11:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by michelle w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋