I dumped my ex fiance for another guy because the other guy was really well off and I thought I really liked him better plus I honestly felt my ex was too nice. But the guy I dumped him for turned out to be a real jerk and he lied and cheated on me constantly. We broke up not to long ago. Now, I want my ex back and he has a girlfriend but she's not very nice and she doesn't deserve him. How do I get him back? I know we belong togethter because we have been together a long time and I know we are soul mates.
2007-11-12 03:26:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you feel like you all belong together then there should never have been any doubt in your mind about marrying him. But anyway if you truly love him then you'll let him know and give him time to figure out what he wants. If its you then he'll let you know. if not then you should know why.
2007-11-12 03:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by ebeezy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"I dumped my ex fiance for another guy because the other guy was really well off " - You are superficial
"I honestly felt my ex was too nice" - So nice guys arent your type. You prefer jerks with money.
"he has a girlfriend but she's not very nice and she doesn't deserve him" - Clearly you are jealous. Who are u to say she doesnt deserve him? You dumped him in the 1st place.
"I know we belong togethter because we have been together a long time and I know we are soul mates" - You dont know the meaning of soulmates. Trust me on this one.
2007-11-12 11:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one who dumped him and now you wants him back because you get dumped. I do not think you have any genuine feeling for your ex and you just feel everything is unfair. You have no right to criticize his current girlfriend. If it is so, then why do you chose to leave him in the first place? So what if both of you knew each other for a long time? In the end, you broke his heart and he finally gets to move on and found his new love. You should move on with your life instead of trying ways to get him back. Remember- What goes around comes around. Now it is your turn...
2007-11-12 11:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through a similiar thing a couple of years ago. The only way to get him back is not to call him or cry and beg him to come back to you, he will see that as a weakness in you and men aren't attracted to weakness. It's okay to tell him how you feel, you made a mistake and you want another chance, then it will be up to him. Be strong and confident and make sure you have a full life since no man can complete you. You complete you.
If a man loves you he will move Heaven and Hell to be with you. You sound so much like me when it happened to me. Good luck! :)
2007-11-12 11:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not soul mates.
Your pride has been hurt by the jerk - you left Prince charming for.
Your best bet is to chalk all this up to a learning experience and move on.
But that's not the answer you were looking for
That's what they say about a bird in the hand being worth more than 2 in the bush.
2007-11-12 11:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well sorry to say this but if you truly think you are soul mates then why did you leave him? Do you know the old saying "you made your bed, now lie in it?" You chose to let him go thinking that the grass would be greener and all you found was yellow spots. You shouldn't have broke up with him if he was a nice guy.
2007-11-12 11:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. You broke up with the man who you thought was too nice and probably really loved you for someone that had more money and treated you crappy. You don't deserve him back. His girlfriend is not nice to you because you're trifling. He would be a fool to take you back. You can't hurt someone like that and think it's okay to start over. Leave him alone and find yourself another "soulmate".
2007-11-12 11:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by tequilanikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well show him you are not the same person you were when you left him and you wont let him down ever again, right now he probably feels like being with you he would not feel some sense of security, so you have to go in and do major damage control!!! Always try to be there for him or around him, do things for him, you want him back you have to go above and beyond !!!
2007-11-12 11:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by chelsmat2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. I'm so sorry. I was in pretty much the same boat two years ago. I was with him for 7 years and broke up with him because I thought I was bored. I left him for someone that seemed more "fun". Well...that was two and a half years ago. He's been with a new girl for about 2 years...she just moved in. I think about him everyday and kick myself for ruining what really could've been something special. You need to remember...something made you leave. You never would've left perfect. You can't have him back...you broke his heart and he's done with you...as my ex is with me. I suggest you just move on. I'm sorry...but good luck!!
2007-11-12 11:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sorry im a guy and i went through a similar sitution aswell.
Can i be straight up with you here?? ALRIGHTTTTYY THEN!!
ok firstly what i have picked up here is that " you proclaim the other girl does not deserve him" ...what makes you think that you do??? look at what you did to that poor guy!! YOU LEFT HIM FOR SOME OTHER GUY!! YOU LEFT HIM!!!!! Hallo world...!!!
He was madly inlove with you, he trusted you, he opened his heart to you and he asked you to get married to him. you were everything to him. What you did was a slap in the face. Ok see the damage? now do you honestly think a simple sorry and tell him how you feel would make any diffrence in his heart about what you did to him?
This is not about you here ...this not about him..this about your actions what you did and im sorry to say but people of you make me sick. Why did you have to go out there and eat the forbidden fruit knowing it was a bad decision.
Im sorry to be blunt but its in my nature. IM not saying your a bad person now but its going to take allot of sorries and allot caracter to get that dude back. Just loook at what he did for you and what you did to him? Messure it up and look what you need to do. I really want to see you guys get back together but its 1 to an 100. NOW PULL UP YOUR SOCKS AND STOP WONDERING WHAT TO DO..you know already......make right what you did wrong!!! BeST OF LUCK :D
2007-11-12 11:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by eddie d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋