i told it to my husband and told me not to see him anymore.
2007-11-11 23:39:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The past is the past...let that dog lie.
2007-11-11 23:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
With all due respect to your husband, don't meet with your ex...What happened between the two of you in the past is already a finished chapter in your life...I'm sure the ex knows the reason behind the bad break up...It's just a lousy alibi if he says he was all clueless about the break up....(",)
2007-11-13 02:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have moved on its best to let the past go,you can send an e mail write a letter or even a phone call but it is really pointless to do any of it because its over and done.The point is nothing is going to change what happened or how or who or when.Best advice is let it go completely and have a great life.Good Luck
2007-11-11 23:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by wanna know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's good that you were honest with your husband and told him about this.
You should know where your loyalty lies. This ex is the past. Your husband is the present. Your loyalty should be to your husband, and if he is not happy for you to meet up with your ex to discuss a dead relationship, then you should respect that.
2007-11-12 00:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by helly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your husband has no right to tell you who you can and cannot see. His only right is to choose whether or not he trusts you.
Do you want to talk to your ex? I don't see the point, but hey, if you're over it and he needs some closure, grant him that and then let things go from there, as in, end the relationship or continue a friendship with this guy, just don't cheat on your husband.
2007-11-11 23:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If u were unsure of your breakup in the first place, neither of you should have remarried. Your actions now are selfish, you are making your current husband feel like a worthless piece of garbage. You are an adult, you made your decision, it`s time to let go of the past. You married your new husband for a reason. Now live up to your decision.
2007-11-11 23:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just leave it at that.No reason this ex should want to see you anyway,and using the excuse he wants to know the reason behind it is no excuse at all.He wants to pull something for sure and i would listen to your hubby now.It will only cause problems between the two of you if you see your ex.
2007-11-12 00:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the past be why would it matter now? The ex is married and so are you. The ex should of asked that question when it happend not now.
2007-11-12 00:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U r married and so is he.......
who cares why the two of you didnt work out?
Dont meet him anywhere. Dont even acknowledge him if you dont have to. It appears he is hanging on to the past and he needs to let it go. It isnt fair to his wife.
Tell him there is no need to discuss the issue, that the past is the past and he needs to stop reliving it.
Good luck.
2007-11-11 23:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your husband. Tell him he made his choices, and enjoy his wife. Don't even give him the time of day. Now he wants answers as to why your not together anymore. He's a bum
2007-11-11 23:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a new life now and he needs to respect that. If your husband doesn't feel comfortable with you talking to this guy then yo ushould respect that. Maybe your hubby would feel better if he were present when you spoke to this guy.
2007-11-11 23:45:12 · answer #11 · answered by deniver2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋