My friend comes over to my house atleast twice a week crying because her and her bf have been fighting. I always take her side and tell her she should leave him, but she always says she doesn't want to. I'm tired of the drama if she is going to stay in this twisted relationship. The real problem is that most of their fights are her fault and it's getting harder to take her side. Example: her bf started talking to his ex-friend (a guy) and now they are friends again. She blew up for no reason. She didn't even know the guy until now. Then she is crying saying her bf is turning it around to her her fault. What's her problem? How can I stay friends with her but get rid of the BS drama everyday?
2007-11-11 23:27:38 · 5 answers · asked by honeybear 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Why is she hooked on him & trying to control his life & who he talks to??? or is he rich & has things other guys don't have?-does she flip out if he "looks" or even "glances" at other women cause she's paranoid he's imagining/thinking of what it would be like to sleep with them??? (I've had a few insecure gf's like that & they taught me what a bad marriage can be like/don't get married too soon, etc. (I lived with a gf, & I felt like I was married to her by mistake!)
2007-11-11 23:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her like I told my Daughter. I told her that she was going to have to stop telling me things "basically it was all her fault also" That it was making me start to not like him. It really wasn't I just didn't want in the middle of people trying to control each other, and that's what it is. When they learn that they cant do that life is so much easier.
2007-11-12 07:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Cowgirl lost seahorse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mam,try to avoid discussion on her bf's topic,convience her to talk only on the subject-happenings had with her along with her bf
2007-11-12 08:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by mayank s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry your friend is a psycho.
2007-11-12 07:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by zul 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how it is and be honest.
2007-11-12 07:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by zombiesdestroy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋