so, my friend hanna has been really mean and i took the advice to write a nice letter to her(because she wasn;t giving me a chance to say anything) and her friends are emailing and IMing me like crazy, for example this email from her friend mikayla:
Rachel, i just want to no y u were being disrespectful? hana never called u anything. so idk wat ur problem is. u should apoligize to her for ur rudeness. b/c thats uncalled for. ecspecially that letter. ur switching the whole problem onto her. she never did anyhting to u except be a good friend. and i wat i tell her is its not worth it and says i no but shes my friend. see wat a good friend she is. think about ur actions. ~Mikayla~
I am so mad that she showed everyone that letter, it was between us two not me vs. hanna AND the school!?!? what should i do? the letter goes like this:
Dear Hanna,
I am writing this letter to try to help you understand how I feel
One, I am NOT mad at you about the dance, dance revolution thing.
Two, It makes
2007-11-11 22:46:44 · 8 answers · asked by free_to_believe_i_can_fly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
us both look bad when you confront me in public, it also makes us angrier than we need to be.
Three, I HATE it when you just ignore me. It hurts my feeling and makes me feel like I did something wrong. Then, when I ask you what is up? You say that you aren’t mad at me. But then why were you ignoring me? Then, you get upset because I am asking you whether you’re mad at me, because you are ignoring me.
Four, please give me a chance to talk. When you confront me, you don’t really give me a chance to say anything. Then what I am trying to say gets bottled up and becomes even more anger, which causes me to explode on you.
Five, I DO TRY TO TALK TO YOU, BUT YOU DON’T PAY ATTENTION.
Six, I don’t try to talk to you anymore, for fear of making you mad or saying “something wrong.”
All I want to know is why are you holding on when it is clear that our friendship will not work out if we don’t stop all of this NONSENSE!
Sincerely,
Rachel
2007-11-11 22:47:15 · update #1
the dance dance thing was when she got mad @ me and then acted like nothing happened. she got mad at me cuz i was a little upset that she acted like nothing happened. she got mad cuz "i bumped into her on purpose" at ice skating warm ups. i was practicing my backward skating and i didn't c her and she FLIPPED OUT! im not mad nemore about it and she says i over reacted about that.
2007-11-11 22:56:45 · update #2
Here is my recommendation.
NEVER WRITE ANYTHING YOU DO NOT WANT PASSED AROUND.
Oh Yes, this person is NOT your friend. Drop her.
2007-11-11 22:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said,if you are trying to sincerely work things out with Hanna! It's between you and she.If she chooses to make more drama.There's nothing else you can do.
Just don't play into the drama anymore.Don't answer the texts! You don't have to keep chasing her done to apologize!
Keep a low profile! Do what needs to be done! Let the drama die down!
Take care!
2007-11-11 22:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by need2know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh to be young and at high school again. In my day the teachers taught us how to use the English language like it suppose to be. Have to say been there done that, and it really doesn't matter. It is not important stuff. Don't worry about it, I am sure that you still have Friends at school. And the friends that you have at moment are not worth it.
2007-11-11 23:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by tayhay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you placed all the same teenagers interior the same college homes and impose a "for income" beaurocracy on good to suck off 20% for CEO salaries and inventory holder dividends. decrease instructor salaries, that's specific to allure to greater helpful instructors than greater paying positions do, to boost revenue. precisely how does lowering in line with pupil money interior the class room going to "advance" preparation?? inner maximum colleges succeed because of the fact they do no longer ought to settle for each applicant, they could call for greater overall performance because of the fact they could %. the greater helpful pupils. as quickly as you tension inner maximum colleges to settle for all pupils, you alter no longer something, yet shrink the quantity of money the college systen places into the college room. And no branch of preparation skill no oversight of the benevolent coeporations sucking their 20% off the coolest of the schoolbudget.
2016-10-16 05:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by saulsbery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing exactly what she wanted you to do.
Freak out about this.
She just wants to see you make a fool of yourself.
Just stop, ignore her, don't do anything. Hang out with different people. That'll drive her crazy.
Good luck!
2007-11-11 23:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by limestuff45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the letter was no big deal it was a nice letter to a friend just give it a little brake and if she was a true friend you will be friends again[go to school with its no big deal your growing up faster then her]
2007-11-11 22:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by john 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, you're fighting over a playstation 2 game? That is an awesome game though....
If I were you, I'd drop her and find a better friend.
2007-11-11 22:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cud u plz mention wat really hppnd at d dance.
widout dat 1 cant really understnd d situation.
2007-11-11 22:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by dis moment is ur life!!! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋