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2007-11-11 18:57:46 · 23 answers · asked by ? 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It depends on the year..lol..My husband and I have been together for eleven years of marriage..and together total for twelveyears..Our eleventh year is coming up on Nov 16..Wedding Anniversary...This the longest that me myself has ever been in a relationship ...and my husband says the same for himself too..LOL..I feel that the last five years Ive been the more committed one..He underwent two spinal fusions and has six herniated discs in his back and neck..narrowed disc space in his neck..Always in alot of pain..Me, I just had a baby six months ago and almost a week after he was born died of eclampsia..so whos more commited..hmmm....It really depends on the year...and every time our anniversarys around the corner..somethin bad always happens..to piss us off..LOL./.All I can say is its a toss up...Sometimes hes more committed than I am..and visa versa...His opinion is that Im the one thats been more committed than he?!!! So whats that supposed to mean...;) He says he feels he is...I look at it this way..in the past five years Ive been the more committed one..while he was depressed and venturing out w/ friends female on internet..just friends..and neglecting me...as his wife..Now I dont feel thats right and neither does he now...Theres phases all relationships go through..Just being honest like you asked me to...lol..always theres noone thats perfect out there..If you can name one..then I will have a questionfor you...Lmaof...;) But I always hear of the female being more committed than I hear of the male..I dont believe in that..for Males are made up differently than females..Males want to provide for their families as well as take care of themselves..which can lead to selfcenteredness.Females on otherhand do much more in the relm of making sure their house is cleaned, taking care of kids off to school..The roles in this society now is both males and females work...So one time the Male may be more committed than the female and visa versa...thats how me and my husbands relationship commitment is..But We Always Stick together as a Team...Teamwork Is the best way to keep the Committment...Goin...Having a Balance of time,work, kids, house, shopping ETC...Its hard sometimes to say that Im more committed than he..We have three boys..one five one three and one six months old..We both have to be committed to taking care of our family..Always have our hands full w/ responsibility....so maybe sometimes Im more committed than he one day and he more committed than me the other..I do feel that this question does deserve a star and I gave you one...Hope I answered you..God bless..Take care..;)
2007-11-11 19:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are both 100% committed. We dont believe in the 50-50 thing, because 50% is an E in every school we both attended. LOL
2007-11-11 19:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is. I'm a bit too care free, not into cheating , just self relient. Having said that, I've learnt a lot from my current partner about the positives re commitment.
2007-11-11 19:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me! Honestly because I haven't found my Partner so I know he's not committed!
2007-11-11 19:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by washington_maverick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was in the beginning and now we are both equally committed on making this marriage work
2007-11-11 19:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by 1hotmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi genTLe m@n...
My partner is more committed then me.
I am very much like a light person.As i said i am a tomboy sort of a person, so romance is somewhat i am a little uncomfortable with.
But i love him veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyy much and he says that he was in love with me because he liked my tomboy and all other stupid attitudes....lolz....tc...sweet dreamz...bye...
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2007-11-12 03:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by $@LLu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a partnership of equal rights, opportunity and responsibilities...i think both of us are as committed to each other and to our family....if not our marriage wouldn't last this long...
2007-11-11 19:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am single, and very commited to staying that way!
2007-11-11 21:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Linda S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is. shhhhhhhh But we have been married for almost 28 years. Go figure!
2007-11-11 19:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we should both be committed, we are equally as crazy.
2007-11-11 19:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Stinky Badger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋