Alright so here's the deal. I really, really, really like this guy. I've known him for about three years now. We're pretty okay friends, we get along really good. Well recently he's been acting really weird, avoiding me, not talking to me, ignoring me. So I asked my friend to ask him what's up. She is a very trustworthy friend who is on the same terms with the guy that I am. I've known her since the second grade. Anyway, when she asked, his answer was 'I heard that she liked me liked me, and I don't like her that way so I wasn't talking to her because it would be awkward.' Not only do I really like this guy, but I value his friendship! I really want things to be okay with us. My friend already told him I don't like him, even though I do, but he STILL hasn't been talking to me! What's up with him, and WHAT DO I DO?
2007-11-11 15:56:25 · 2 answers · asked by jay-pet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Us should confront him honeslty instead of avoiding the conflict. If he still acts like a little kid about it, leave him be, he actually isn't a good friend hunnie, a good friend would of understood you enough, to ask you personally what was going on. Less that means he didn't really know you and worse didn't trust you, no trust, no frienship....
2007-11-15 11:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feeel bad for you, ivee been heree before too and it SUCKS.
i think you ruined it with him, like for goood.
just try and ignore him. dont try and call or talk on the computer, that will make it worse! just wait tilll he gets over it, cause he will
mabye you should tell him in person that if he doesnt want to be more than friends, you should stay good friends anyways.
2007-11-11 16:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Keemia k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋