When it comes to sex and genders, who exerts more effort... ?

Question

When it comes to sex and genders, who exerts more effort:
Men (Always trying to get sex from women)?
Or Women (Always trying to evade sexual advances)?

Answer 1

I think guys exert more effort. From my prespective, I allways get a feeling that there are other who like the same girl, so I allways have to find ways to be creative. Sometimes, I have to make adjustments, or just the constant planning on how I can approach the girl. For me its not allways about sex, but getting the ultimate approval that she thinks positive of me. After this step, yes sex does approach the mind. So from getting the girl to like me, to then planning for the right move for sex, guys need a lot more planning, whereas for women you have your girlfriends who you often talk with and ideas are easier to float around.

Answer 2

WOW! From what I have seen of your questions and the answers you seem to be getting: you certainly have a problem. First of: your assumption about roles we play in the name of love so to speak are all wrong. You seem to be confusing girls for women and boys for the men. Adults do not act the way children do, therefore we have less problems in our daily lives ( we also have more things to worry about ). FYI, sexual peak for a healthy male comes at his very young age of 17, for a healthy female it takes its sweet time and only shows up after her 35th birthday. So, now you can see how unfairly you have been judging your female friends simply because they are not adult women quite yet.

Now, adult women do not play games: they know who they are and what they want, so they simply ask for it. However, in a few years, you will eventually find that out for yourself.

Answer 3

It probably works out about the same. Women spend ages agonizing about how to choose a partner, talking to their mates, reading endless magazine, guys spend ages plucking up courage, working out whether to ask and how to deal with rejection and so on.

I don't think your description of how men and women behave is true of all men & women, but I will grant you there is quite a lot of truth to it, especially for those under 25 or so. It does get easier as you get older.

Answer 4

Well i dont know that much but i know tons about my parents, see i think they do the same amount becuase the father gos to work, gets the money, pays the bills, etc. and the women takes care of the children, uses the money that the father gets to buy supplies and groceries and makes dinner etc., now im not saying that a womens job is only to cook and clean and a mans job is to work and work, but at most times it is.