I'm 46 my wife is 41 and very sexy, we've been married for five months. So what's the problem? We live about a 1,000 miles apart (for another 6 months), so when I see her for a week, every day works great. However, once I move in, I'm thinking not daily, but about 2-3 times a week. I DON'T want her to think that she doesn't turn me on, but at the same time, I think I am thinking daily is too often. What should I expect? What is fair?
2007-11-11 14:30:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not worry over this. It will be just fine! You both will be there to please each other..in all ways..not just sexual. There may be times it is daily..then other times less often. It is very normal. Do not worry about quanity...but quality!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-11 14:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by bodacious baby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it from some one who loves sex, when I was 17, 18 I could go 2, 3 & sometimes even 4 times a day, I'm 33 I was in a automobile accident, I could perform daily but if do it once a week there is no doubt she is satisfied 111%
so don't worry about giving more than you can. Remember Quality is always better than quantity. Good luck
2007-11-11 14:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you first get together it will still be every day. But soon it will be 2-3 times a week.
2007-11-11 14:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jody 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Money. She misses her dad. Money. If he can provide her and the kids with everything they need. Money. If he treats her well. But most young ladies like older men because they seem more mature and established and steady and especially if they have money. Sad, but true.
2016-05-29 07:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow!! Spontaneous sex is great!!! If you are on a busy schedule than plan ahead. Talk to her. Ask her what is her ideal time. Good Luck!!
2007-11-11 15:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by metalwife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As often as you like, without neglecting her needs. Usually, it's more frequent in the beginning, then tapers off a bit.
2007-11-11 14:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are putting way too much thought into this. Just go with the flow and see what feels right.
2007-11-11 14:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget averages.
IMO whatever makes your relationship work. If you're both happy with once a month...fine.
The problems arise when both disagree on frequency.
2007-11-11 14:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by alpla 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt set a schedule for how often you have sex just do it when you both are in the mood and let it happen naturally. once you get used to living togetehr i doubt she will want sex as much either.
2007-11-11 14:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a Virgo, you seem to be thinking about it too much.
2007-11-11 14:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Like being a DINK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋