we've been friends since freshman year. last year she pretty much lived with me. we were in band together and we were having the time of our lives. then here comes junior year still and band and now in drama club. and after me and my b/f break up. we fall apart. she told a guy who told me that i am just someone who sits backstage and doesnt act. she's been in drama since grade school but this year she got stage manager and when she found out it was a disaster b/c i was in the cast and she wasn't. but hey no one can always get wat they want right? and the thing is she has never told me any of this to my face. which pisses me off. and now she's sayin that she misses hanging out with me and blah blah. idk i guess i kinda hate her now. i've tried to get closer to her but it doesn't work. she's always busy with school and whatnot. but now i don't know what to do please help!!!!
2007-11-11 14:08:10 · 6 answers · asked by AiR09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well whenever you have time, make sure you make it clear to her why it is you two haven't been close and the problems between you two, just be honest with her and if she can't handle it and lies then maybe (and sadly) she isn't as much of a person as you thought. And if you guys are actually able to talk things out then your friendship will stand a chance...
2007-11-11 14:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by oxs3xiirockrchiickox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what can i say ...all friend ships even long ones go through this, its a game between each partie really. but its your choice how the game is played. Its normal when there is friction between friends to have that "hate motion" but maybe the best thing to do is to take a good breather from each other and maybe in the future go back and resolve further issues, you well be suprise it worked for me and now me and my friend are closer than ever.
2007-11-11 22:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've been through a bit of a rough patch! My suggestion is maybe to just leave her alone for awhile, hang out with different friends, but keep it civil between you both, because trust me when I say, you dont want things to get nasty. Just leave her alone for while, let her think things over and evaluate herself :]
Goodluck, I hope this helps!
2007-11-11 22:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by -Ashlee- Eeeep! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on. find more friends. talk to her when u get a chance. like hi. whats up? stuff like that. friends come and go and guess what. later in life they all remember all the good times u all had together. get as many friends as u can. don't hate her just give her some space. and you may just profit from it. there are so many cool people out there. you can learn so much from them and that is the bomb. go for it. step up.............have fun.........
2007-11-11 22:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by madmax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of things like that will happen in your lifetime, which is a reason to be very selective in picking your friends. If you have tried to become close again and she still will not respond, it is time to develop another friendship. The manner in which you explain yourself tells me she is the loser.
2007-11-11 22:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by googie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend are like tat too!!! u have to move on.. b friends wit them but not too close!!! keep a distance..
good luck
2007-11-11 22:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Hottie Pro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋