how do you tell your best Friend his girl is promiscuous?

Question

i care for my freinds and wouldn't want to hurt any of them but if i dont say somthing surely he'll find out later.
most of my freinds could take the info objectivly but this perticular freind is a little soft-hearted how should i handle this?

Answer 1

its hes a really good friend..tell him...or you, if you know for sure, positive..dont say a word....show him...by that i mean;

if you see her going out behind his back and know where she is at ...run and get your friend..and casually take him where he can see for his own eyes.

my real life best friend and i have talked of this subject...and we both agreed we would want to know...they may not believe you at first ..but the seed is planted and they will find out on their own in good time.

however ...be prepared for the reaction of ...your friend getting angry/upset with you at that moment...but will calm down when he finds out on his own and he will apologize for being a jerk and not listening to you..that is what bestfriends do, get mad, but always stay best friends.


good luck

Answer 2

Ohhh boy! That's just asking for trouble!

The best thing to do is to not even bother.

Why?

Well, most people usually have concepts of the person they are dating. It might not be the right concept,but they have it anyway. To challenge the concept is asking for trouble.

Tactfully, you could tell your friend that you are worried that his girl is not right for him. That way you express your concern, and not challenge the image of the person.

Eventually he'll find out on his own. I think you obligation is to express concern, but say no more, as you might not even really know.

Answer 3

Give him the respect he deserve's and tell him honestly all you know . That you can't sit around and wait for him to find out the hard way .He will respect you as a true friend and hopefully loose the little twit ! He deserve's better and there are plenty more where she came from ........offer to go scope out some together soon .

Answer 4

Honestly there is no way of telling what to do if you think your friendship is strong enough to handle the stituation then tell him, but if you are worried that it isn't you need to think about what is better for him, even if that means the end of the friend ship because hhe is your friend I think it maybe better to tell him, because like you said he will find out anyway I think it might be easier for him to find out from a friend rather then find out from a lover of hers? but it is your choice in the matter

Answer 5

You really should stay out of his business. His gf could be very manipulative and turn this information around on you, by saying you are just jealous or that you hit on her or something. If she is really what you say, more than likely he already knows and you will just hurt his ego by pointing it out. If he doesnt know, dont damage your friendship by pointing out to him. Let him find out the truth, when its right in his face.

Answer 6

Just scribble her name and telephone number all over the Men's Bathrooms you frequent ( For a good time, call 867-5309__< her name). He'll eventually get the picture.

Answer 7

this is referred to as a "double common" - adult men who do this carry females to a thoroughly distinctive common than they carry themselves to. so they think of this is okay to screw around as much as achieveable, because of the fact the ladies who enable them to do that are slutty, and consequently unworthy companions. they do no longer think of that the ladies who're marriage-worth have an identical standards, i assume. Or they parent that they are God's present to womankind, that any organic woman whom they deem to be marriage-worth won't care approximately what they did. inspite of the undeniable fact that, they are in basic terms as promiscuous because of the fact the ladies they screw around with, and no clever woman could understand that habit in a guy. apart from the possibility of disease that those idiots divulge to themselves and their companions, and the possibility of being pregnant with the attendant expenditures of youngster help and the hit to their economic futures.

Answer 8

If it was one of my friends i would go out for a beer with him and try and gently break the news to him, make sure hes in high spirits and then divert the conversation to him and his girlfriend and then break the news.

Answer 9

I wouldn't say anything.He will find out soon enough. This could jeopardize your friendship with him so don't do it or even discuss it with him later when he finds out.
My .02

Answer 10

if he is your friend, and nothing more or ever was....just come straight out and tell him. if he doesnt believe you or gets mad at you-then you tried to be a good friend and he will have to learn for himself. just try to say it in a nicer way. that way it doesnt seem like you are attacking him.