I just felt that i had to let everyone know about me since they seem to be judging me based on the questions i asked. first of all thanks to all that answered and were polite.....but to the rest who act as if i am a lil girl........i am a sophomore at UC Davis & i am 18 yrs old.....me & my boyfriend have been together for over 2yrs & plan on getting married....no we do not have any STDs & that is why we continue to have unprotected sex because it is our choice....yes we are actually trying to have a baby because we know we are ready & this is something that we both want.....I know alot about life but there are still question that i want to ask the public & get their opinion on it.......i am just upset at the way some ppl like to judge & complain bcuz i ask questions......owell but once again thanks for answerin my questions iin the most respectable manner but to the rest you all should think about the things you say to others
2007-11-11 13:16:37 · 16 answers · asked by MrS. B. Wo0dS 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Some people answer these questions and don't keep in mind that the question is being asked by a human, the ones that talk mean are the ones that couldn't have done it if you were face to face with them. I understand where you are coming from but please let me give you a little advise, If you and your boyfriend are truly in love then wait for having children you will have plenty of time, Be happy and enjoy the times you two share together, and save up money, children aren't cheep, and take up allot of your time, I was 18 when I had my first child it was hard to juggle everything and have time together with my husband, there were no more split moments to go out or go out with other friends, because someone needs to watch the baby, don't be in a hurry, you have many years to start a family, Enjoy the time you to can share for awhile.
Please think about it OK ?
2007-11-11 13:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bingo 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I thought I knew so much @ 18 too. Whats the big rush on having a baby? Why not get your degree and get married first? My wife and I had children early too, and let me tell you the **** is hard when you're not established! Take your time sweetheart you and your guy get your stuff together first and it will just that more easier. Not trying to sound negative or anything but there is no guarantee that you all will be together or he will stick around. Just something to think about. I have drawlz that are 2 years old. That's not a long time. Me and my wife's situation is very rare, being together from teen years. God bless
2007-11-11 21:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by big Sco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because people think that 18 year old girl should be in collage and living with their parents and that's it. They don't think you should start a life at such a young age (trust me I know) I was 18 when I get married and everybody, Even my closest friends, thought I was doing it because I was Preggo but I wasn't. I've been married for 4 years and still have not had a baby. People still give sh!t about it but you just have to brush it off. People are mean and jealous that you found love at a young age and their old and lonely. lol
ou do what you want not what ever they want you to. You live your life and not the life they want you to live.
Good Luck :) Congrats
2007-11-11 21:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is very easy to think that you know everything while you are in college and 18 years old. If/When you have a child, how will you take care of it? where will you live? who will pay for daycare while you are at school?
I guess that most people have problems with the fact that you are 18 and actively trying to get pregnant while in school. We do not want to have to pay for that child.
That is being honest..........not being mean.
2007-11-11 21:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hear you, but I think that you are very young to be having a baby. I'm saying this as an opinion, not being judgemental. Of course it is your decision, but think very carefully about what it is you are doing .... your own life hasn't really started yet, but you are very keen to get other life started asap. You might regret this very soon. I'm just saying think very carefully first.
2007-11-11 21:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i had my first child when i was 16 yes it was not planned but i married my boyfriend and we have been married for 23 years . so if you are asking if you should get pregnant i say go for it if you are ready my 17 year old is about to have a baby girl and getting married in 2 years, i had all my kids by the time i was 27 and i have 4, at least when you have your kids young you can enjoy them and then you are young enough to do what you want later and enjoy your grandkids.
2007-11-11 21:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by attitude 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I dont think i answered any of thoes question's, but if it is about unprotected sex and pregnancy it's best just to say on the question that you and your partner are trying for a baby otherwise they are going to take it the wrong way and carry on about falling pregnant and getting std's. Not to mention people saying get on birth control and blah blah. They just jump to conclusions. Best of luck to you and your partner with TTC.
2007-11-11 21:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Some people have no respect for anyone. Follow your heart . Live your life to the fullest and dont let anyone bring you down from that.
2007-11-11 21:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How much does a diaper cost and how many will a newborn use in the first year?
2007-11-11 21:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
wow
i'm srry abt those nasty ppl
dont get upset with there bla bla bla
just go and ur boyfrnd and do ur own life
and if u need any help just ask us
and i'll try 2 help in any ways as Possiple
t/c :)
2007-11-11 21:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋