I usually do, but that doesn't mean I'll actually walk away. I tend to hold onto the hope that I'm wrong longer than is a good idea, and I'm big on giving people the benefit of the doubt.
The problem is that my condition has always been that all of my friendships and relationships have ended eventually, with the possible exception of the current one. Leaving when the end is obvious is a different time than leaving before the relationship becomes damaging. I tend to wait for the second, others I know just wait for the first. If I did this, I would never start a relationship or friendship at all.
2007-11-11 16:52:39
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answer #1
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answered by Mythological Beast 4
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This would be a boast that I can foretell the future. I have walked away when, in retrospect, it was the worst choice I could have made. Then again, I have stayed due to my religious beliefs only to find they failed me terribly, and it would have saved years and years of heart ache had I just followed my animal instincts. Now, if I would have followed these animal instincts and left my wife of 19 years, I would have never experienced the joys I have experienced. I guess what I am trying to say (and I hate to admit this) is it's all a crap shoot! I am no where near the person to learn this positive characteristic from. Yet, I too, have never met anyone who possesses this trait. But, I sure would sure like to meet one!
2007-11-12 12:38:52
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answered by delux_version 7
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No.
I know I am bored. I know I just got through talking to a person who I never thought I would hear from again to talk about a person I will never hear from again, who died this morning and who I will have to morn soon, but I don't think I will ever know when to walk away. It is too hard to let people go you care for.
BTW, all of that has nothing to do with anyone you know except for the last comment, though it applies to events going on in my life right now as well....
2007-11-11 13:24:03
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answered by LORD Z 7
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I honestly can say that I don't. I am the type of person to try and try until there's nothing left. That's what happened with my last relationship and now I look back and think I should have left a long time ago.
2007-11-11 12:57:58
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answered by Anonymous
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in all probability between the main complicated judgements i will ever could make! it relatively is a form of options you may desire to make one way yet be responsive to which you won't be able to! once you're observed to have self belief something it relatively is extremely seen no longer in basic terms as a remember of existence and death yet of sturdy and evil by employing those around you, it relatively is extremely tricky to even admit which you doubt it, in no way recommendations reject the assumption. for many, it relatively is something that they can't admit to many contributors of their family contributors for concern of ostracisation or fervorant conversion tries, such is the point of value human beings place in faith. For me, it nonetheless hurts that my family contributors would desire to relatively love me and yet enable themselves to have self belief, without totally examining it objectively. that i'm damned to hell. If it have been me, i could in all probability seek for motives to no longer have self belief, although i'm no longer asserting that would desire to be any much less close-minded. what's lazy in a judgment of right and incorrect? on the only hand you're instructed a black and white international-view that once it hurts others is justified as a results of fact it comes from a very ethical God at an identical time as on the different you may artwork and picture to be sure the wonderful ethical decision in a gray section. i'm privileged to do the latter. Now i'm no longer implying that there at the instant are not Christians who do the latter to boot as a results of fact i replaced into one and be responsive to three a minimum of however the guy who accused you won't sound like certainly one of them. I ensue to be responsive to who it relatively is for the reason which you instructed me and that i hit upon that he's somewhat simplistic and black and white! Now it relatively is the gentle place to be in!
2016-10-16 04:39:16
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answered by ? 4
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Yes I do, and if I have walked away I wouldn't ever go back..
2007-11-11 12:52:23
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answered by itsjustme 7
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Yes I know when to hold them and when to fold them and know the difference between the two.
2007-11-11 13:19:17
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answered by David T 4
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i know all of it especially when everything is crystal clear but finding the courage to walk away is tough
2007-11-12 19:30:36
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answered by Anonymous
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*Yes & I know when to hold them and when to fold them*
Sorry David!
Kenny Rogers song! The Gambler, I love it!
2007-11-11 13:22:49
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answered by Me 7
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Yes.
2007-11-11 12:51:21
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answered by worldneverchanges 7
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