Im pregnant with my second child. My daughter i had a 16 and made the choice to place her up for adoption. Im pregnant now by the same guy and we're planning on keeping this one. Im 19 now. Is that wrong?
2007-11-11 12:47:56 · 13 answers · asked by lucky 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No, not at all. If you are ready to provide a good life and lots of love and stability for this child, then congratulations--- you should feel secure and happy in your choice. I think what you may be feeling is a misplaced sense of guilt for having given up your first baby while deciding to keep this one -- notice I said MISPLACED sense of guilt. You did the right thing, made the right choice for you at that time in your life. That child and that family are now blessed, you gave the most caring, selfless gift another human can give - and what you did was give your baby the best possible shot at life you could. You should get an AWARD, not feel guilty or ever second guess your choice. If your first child ever wants to meet you, there are websites where you can post your contact info or that hook up adoptees and their birth parents if either are seeking each other. Other than that, be proud of yourself for maturing into a conscientious young woman, and enjoy your pregnancy! Congratulations!
2007-11-11 14:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by jimigirl17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you should have known better then to get pregnant again at such a young age (if it was an "accident")
I do applaud you for giving your daughter up for adoption and not abortion, you gave a couple a family.
If you feel that you are both ready this time and can care for a child then I wish you nothing but the best. I pray that you will be financially stable and have a great life with your new baby.
2007-11-11 12:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deffinatly not. You are most likely in a different place now then you were before. I made a similar choice 2 years ago before i graduated college and had my feet on the ground, but now i am 33 weeks pregnant and keeping my baby. The same though crossed my mind, but i really do believe that choices are made based on what is best at a moment in time and the future should not be ruled by them. Good Luck and stay strong.
2007-11-11 12:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by adlegere19 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you can support your baby. You should tell this child, when they are old enough to understand, that they have a older sister out there that you were unable to take care of when she was born so they are living somewhere else. If you have an open adoption show them the pictures.
LADY31: She said ADOPTION, not ABORTION. LEARN HOW TO READ.
2007-11-11 12:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's wrong getting pregnant this early. *sigh*
But putting up the child for adoption. At least she is in a better place hopefully with nice parents.
2007-11-11 12:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by PhizZingFree 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not if you are ready to raise a child but the big issue is money. Is he working and will he support you? These are questions you need to know the answers to.
2007-11-11 12:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jim J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you feel is right. But if I was you I wouldnt have gotten pregnant with the second one. Its only a accident once.
2007-11-11 12:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Alexanders and Katherines mama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at you scare of having baby so early, i mean, what about your ed. and everything. i thought having a baby at the age of 16 should teach you a lesson. Baby are really expensive and took alot of your times.
2007-11-11 12:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, ur of age if u live in Canada so that fine. If u live in the states, there's only 2 years till ur of age so it's fine. And it's ur decision, so good luck.=)
2007-11-11 12:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by sweetstrawberries_26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not wrong. at least u didnt abort the first one, im proud that u just went through the first pregnancy. well good luck!
2007-11-11 12:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Lil mzz green eyez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋