I know that when I was single, my then roomate was seeing this girl, and he was kind of using her for sex. Well, he found out she was pregnant and he paid for 1/2 of the abortion for her. I ask if he felt any guilt and he did not! Now that was many years ago, but I always wonder if it bothers guys when a women has an abortion? I know for me, I am a father of a 13 year old and I could not live with myself if I would have done the abortion thing! What are your thoughts or feelings here?
2007-11-11 12:36:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well the question is not so much how i would feel, except that its a personal thing. i would feel awful so awful in fact i wouldnt do it, but there are some that have no problem with it and suffer no guilt. there are others who would and then suffer and struggle with the decison. it is a different feeling and response for everyone, no right answer here.
2007-11-11 12:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by j m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, I don't think most guys feel that much remorse about it, because if the women wasn't ready to have a child then most likely the boyfriend was not either. Even with women who find it troubling to have an abortion, they end up feeling some guilt but also a sense of relief. I'm sure you would be bothered by it for some time if you are strongly opposed to abortions, but over time you would let it go and move on.
I think for you personally, an abortion seems unthinkable and you wouldn't be able to live with yourself, because you've experienced the joy of fatherhood and love your 13 yr old son. So to even think about possibly have supported an abortion 13 years ago seems insanely wrong.
2007-11-11 12:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by eMteMind 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, money will make human beings perform a little evil issues. wager i will no longer be able to blame them too a lot for figuring out to purchase mad at somebody that doesn't want a infant by utilising them. If a guy asks any woman to have an abortion, then all of us comprehend you ain't no halle berry. *shrugs* btw, merely a comedian tale to those that had. i comprehend that the full abortion situation is a lot extra complicated than this.
2016-10-02 03:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes.
Many years ago , was much in love, and she got pregnant.
Torn between no money (both poor students) and having a child and terminate our studies to work.
All can say wish we had that child, once a week since (or more often) always on my mind.
We did not stay together; but from me it was the abortion I just couldn't stay in the relationship after that.
2007-11-11 12:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by alpla 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband's cousin got two different girls pregnant while in high school and his parents paid for the abortions. He regrets it now that he is married and has kids now. I was surprised that his parents actually paid for them because they were devout Catholics.
2007-11-11 12:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think first off you should deal with the consequences of your acts..I only support abortion if rape was involved...So we are all adults protect yourself from that probability& teach our kids better.I know personally I could not!! It would always be that question of "what if?" Sup[pose my parents aborrted me.......
2007-11-11 12:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by nyc033 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is because you have a heart. People have been taught in science class that babies are not real until they are born. They also believe God is not real, until they die. Isn't that odd.
2007-11-11 12:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Guys who do that will be dealt with by God. It's a sin to commit murder, much less murder one of God's little lambs.
2007-11-11 12:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I've never gotten a her girl/woman pregnant, but I did make out with he-she once...does that help?
2007-11-11 12:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Yes I have about 8 years ago...I drove her to the clinic and waited while the procedure was done.
2007-11-11 12:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 4⤋