I know all my senior friends in here don't have a mean bone in your body but?

Question

But if you were allowed one thing or person or what ever to hate in your life time, what would it be? Think about this really good cause you only get one!!!

Terrific answers already !! Yes fiji ! Welcome hon !!!

Answer 1

I am going to be very, very careful about this one...it would seem that in my life, the few times I have come close to hating has not worked out well for the object of my strong dislike...I seem to carry serious aura when it comes to hate, so I avoid it at all cost. And, I wonder if that is not true of all of us? Powerful emotions carry serious ramifications and can wreck havoc at times. The old adage, "be careful what you wish for" falls in very strongly here, so folks, again, be very careful.
I may dislike a few, I may really dislike a few groups, but I will not allow myself to go to hate...it eats me up, and lord knows what it can do to the target....nope, won't go there. Phil

Answer 2

I don't hate anyone anymore. I did hate a late aunt for being
so incredibly cruel toward me in the last few years of her life.
I suspected Alzheimers as the reasoning behind that. And it
probably was. I was forced to live with her during those last
few years, twice. And she was undergoing chemo therapy.
She beat cancer twice however. And never succumbed to it.
There were times when she threatened me and I never backed down. And there were a few 'near misses' when I
came close to hitting her. But I held back, and stayed in
control while she ranted on. I have no idea why she became
so hateful. I know she blamed me for one thing later, being
confused between myself and a cousin who was the guilty
party. But not in her mind.
She died of a massive stroke. And I don't think there was
a single person who mourned her. She burned all of her
bridges by the time she met her demise. She only had one
living person who could have mourned her, and didn't. It
seems such a waste, when people lose their minds and
change their personalities from their earlier lives. No matter
how you felt about them then, it's bound to change when
they change into monsters before your eyes. My mother was
that way too. And she had a relapse shortly before my birthday and was as she had been twenty years before. But
she'd been in another mind when she made her will. And she
didn't recognize me as part of the family any longer. It was
bad enough all my life, she'd refer to my twin sisters, as "her
girls". As if I was on the outside looking in all along. I used
to think as the oldest, I'd inherit the big house and have the
comfort and security I had growing up. But no, locks were
changed and my sisters inherited everything. And where were
they when mother needed some physical help with a chore?
They were always too busy. They were single and had places to go, or things to do. But it was I, who was there to help. And
she always seemed to forget that. Even as she was in the
hospital after her last stroke, she was surprised I was there.
She even mentioned she was 'surprised that I was there'. I
didn't question it. I merely smiled. She'd forgotten I had always been at her bedside when she'd had reason to be
in a hospital bed. But she knew, her 'girls' had.

Answer 3

Only one. And for a long, long time.

I can only assume that person is dead and hopefully died a long, slow painful death - completely alone...and they didn't find the corpse for a coupla months.

It never interferred with my life however. Hate didn't "eat me up" and I certainly never obsessed about it....that is a fruitless and meaningless excercise. But, occasionally I wished that person ill...and knew through family channels that the life of that person was dreadful. I was so happy......

No regrets about the ill will either....

Answer 4

Hate is a very strong word, I dont hate anything or anyone, it's just not a healthy emotion to carry around.

I am disgusted and often angry with self serving politicians like Campbell in BC who gave himself a $65,000 a year RAISE and cut the funding for food banks, women's shelter, child welfare, education, you name it - the tax payers money is all being funneled into his bank account and the olympics.

At $1100 a ticket for one event the tax payers are bankrolling a good time for Campbell and his rich cronies, while thousands are homeless, and hungry including far far too many children and elderly - I would like to ask him how he manages to sleep at night?

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I used them all up when I was a teen-ager, and I really don't want to go back and retrieve them.

Well, maybe I should have reserved enough to really hate creatures that dwell beneath bridges, but they're not worth the energy it takes to hate them. Pity, yes.

Answer 7

Hey Plum!! I have to agree with all these answers but if I had to pick one person or thing, I would pick Abuse in the broadest sense of the word...which would include all of these, as well as mean spirited, jealous, manipulative, two face, conniving, dishonest, untrustworthy, trouble making, self centered, behavior. I think that about covers it!! lol!

Answer 8

I'll have to go with anyone who hurts a child in any way mentally or physically. My hate is very strong for those people.

Answer 9

I think I could deal with episodes of anger, fear, dread, even rage or loathing in response to a specific threat or specific act.....but I'm really having a tough time selecting anyone or anything to hate. Hate can be so insidious and tenacious. You let it into one area of your life and it tends to creep into other parts of your life. Hating anyone or anything gives too much power to that person or thing.....I just hate to give up any of my power...that's it! I'll hate giving any of my power or reason or time to hate....I'll hate subcoming to hate...>wicked grin<

Answer 10

I dont like to say I hate, I would say I have a very strong dislike for my ex and with many good reasons.