I know you will think that I'm vain, but please believe me, cuz I'm NOT. I did something to myself that ruined my life forever. Please people help me. I know that there is someone out there who can comfort me, somone who can make me feel better. See what happened was that I was depressed and blamed my appearance for it, when In reality there was nothing wrong with me and I WAS NOT ugly. My friends called me pretty and even a few men said I was beautiful. I wouldn't call myslef those, But all i know is that I was good average, but never UGLY. But see I was too blind to see the good things in my life and I obssessed over the way I looked and thought if i looked prettier, I could have a better life, ( Hot bf, more friends,...) Anyways, I got plastic surgery( chin and cheeks)and now my life is a disaster. I look disgustingly UGLY! I can't bear to look at my own face. I look at old pictures, and see how stupid I was for thinking I was ugly. Becasue now I see what TRUELY ugly is.
2007-11-11 11:35:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
My brother is getting a promotion in job and he has promised me that he would let me borrow somemoney so I can get a revisiion, but deep in my heart, that would mean more dissapointment and vainness. I just wish I could go back and have my eyes opened to all the beauty that I had. For all of you out there who think plastic surgery will change your life and make you happier, please take a moment and rethink that> becasue you have so much to be grateful for and that;s never the answer. It turned me from pretty to extremely UGLY so that people laugh at me everyday and call me ugly all teh times. they say we feel sorry for her. :(
2007-11-11 11:38:50 · update #1
Sadly I can't think of a thing to make you feel better ,because I agree ,,you were a fool to think you needed fixed when you weren't broken ,, But on a brighter side I think it's supose to be sunny tomarow ,,,, ~ ~ Don't frett looks some of us are only looking to get a little anyway , As my brother used to joke-ingly say - well she ain't very pretty but she sure is dumb,,,, { { we love ya no matter what you look like ! } }
2007-11-11 12:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say to you. If your brother will give you the money for the operation, then go for it. But first I would check with a lawyer and see if there is anything he can do. Was the plastic surgeon legit? Where did you go to get it done. Has it healed yet - maybe you are still swollen. Maybe you just look different and are not used to the new look yet. I am sure that you are not as ugly as you think you are. Everyone has something about themselves that they dislike but is not noticeable to others. We are our own worst critics. Go for the revised surgery if you think it will make you feel better about yourself but remember how you thought THIS surgery was going to make you feel better about yourself. Beauty is on the inside anyway. Try and develop that and not focus so much on your outside looks. Whatever you decide, I support you. Good luck
2007-11-11 19:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by oldbeatlefan53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god. I'm so sorry this happened to you!!!
As I have not ever had plastic surgery, and I don't know much about this sort of thing, all I can suggest is that you use what happened as an example to other women with low self esteem; you may not ever be able to fully reverse what happened to you, but you can definitely keep another beautiful girl from making the same mistake.
My prayers are with you.
2007-11-11 19:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually the surgeon should reverse the surgery at no charge or revise it if you are unhappy with it( i was a plastic surgeons assistant for 13 years)... you know there is alot to life than just looking good.... try working on the inside and then the outside will be beautiful... with or without surgery
2007-11-11 19:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by cristelle R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋