Your opinions on this (plz help?)?

Question

This guy i like is the host (21yrs old) at a casino. We've stared at eachother for weeks. I went to the casino saturday and some woman won 2000$ next to me..that broke the 'ice' between me and him. We 3 talked. 20 min later I looked back and him and fem employees talking to him were staring at me. 2min later he comes up to me..lowers his head next to me and said " I don't do this sort of thing..that often and i know you probly hear this from alot of guys but, *pulls out his card* this is my email and you can write me if you would ever want to go out sometime." ( he is the host *why he has a card*). I messaged him and didn't hear from him till 3 days later (that was the day he came back to work) he said "Sarah, I’m glad you feel that way. I was surprised to see that you had already emailed me!I figured I might have scared you or made you uncomfortable that night, (I’m sorry if I did) I’m guessing you probably get sick & tired of guys hitting on you all the time but I want you to know

that I’m one of the good guys. I know we don’t even know one another but I’m glad you are willing to give me a chance.You are beautiful and you have a great personality & normally I wouldn’t have had the guts to ask you out or I would have figured you had a boyfriend or you weren’t interested .But my Dad gave me some advice and said “what is the worst that could happen? You get turned down / well at least you gave it a try and your not sitting around wondering what might have happened” I took that advice to the heart & decided to at least try talking to you, & I’m glad I did. Anyway, we’ll have to keep in touch" I went to the casino that day and he passed me like "hey!" and talked with me about machines and stuff, and came up to me whenver..randomly. Smiled and told me "Did you know you could turn in your players card for money?" I was like "ya" and he said "well you have 10 dollars on it :)" and i thanked him. When I got home I had another msg waiting for me..it was new.

"Sarah,
I’m sorry we don’t get much of a chance to talk when you’re up here! My job keeps me pretty busy most of the time…
Anyway I figured I would give you my # @ home is ###-###-#### (you can call me anytime)I also have a track phone—but I don’t get reception in Cook, but It works once I get around Virginia or closer to the towers / so feel free to call or text me @ ###-###-#### I might not get your message right away -- but I do check my phone all the time so feel free to call me anytime !!
Ok
-Aaron"
I emailed him 2 msgs for both messages he sent me. I just complimented..said he has no need to be sorry, at least he got me 10 more dollars! :). He sent me the last one on wednesday, I called his house # once yesterday but no answer and text saying whats up but thats it. then he just wrote sayin "Hey Sarah,I’m sorry I didn’t call you back last night ! I didn’t get home until really late.I have to work until 2am today & I don’t have days off until Monday – Tuesday & Wednesday

But I promise I’ll be calling you soon (okay)
Have a good night. What do you think of him..or just the general situation i am in? Do you think he will call me and such? He hasn't had a day off since last tuesday and i wrote him on wednesday. He wont have hads off till the upcomming mon tues and weds...anyway, what do you think? ty!

Answer 1

I think if you really like this guy see what happens but by all means don't put your life on hold more or less waiting for him. Don't assume anything, if you want to know, just ask him, I really believe you should be able to ask any question to anyone you want answers from. Hopefully, he feels the same way and is an open and honest guy. Trust that your heart will feel the sincerity if it is there and know if it isn't. Life is too short to wonder, go for it. Good luck

Answer 2

He's either very busy or he's giving you the runaround. But don't take that second comment negatively. I think the guy is just plain scared that he isn't going to make a good impression on you. He probably feels that he can't quite meet your standards, so is afraid to try. Don't give up on him. Just keep on being friendly, messaging, etc. Eventually he should come around and ask you on a real date. If he doesn't, then you really haven't lost anything. If you can't depend on the guy, he isn't worth bothering with. But do give him a reasonable chance before writing him off. Good luck!

Answer 3

I could be wrong, but he sounds like the kind of guy that tries to be whatever he thinks you want him to be, and you end up dumping because he has no spine. Pure conjecture on my part, but thats the feeling I get. Oh yeah, he'll call you.

Answer 4

He prob'ly has his hooks in many young girls, if he isn't home. If he really likes and respects you, hold out, and see how interested he remains. He's no great shakes as a 'catch'. Get interested in someone 'real'.

Answer 5

i think that guys these days are finally getting around to respect women in the way that we deserve to be treated! :)
I just wish that i knew a guy like him :(

HOLD ON TO THIS ONE! HE IS A KEEPER!!!!!!!!