Happy gay couplets - what is your secret for success?

Question

Hi, LGBT peoples! I have found the one for me, the one that is going to make me happy for the rest of my life. My question to you fine people is: what are the little things, the snippets of advice that you can give, that keep a relationship healthy and exciting? Anything would be wonderful - I have never wanted something to work more in my life. Thanks for your life advice!

Awww - HI GAYMES! The wicked trolls at work took my Answers access away. thanks for the advice, and lemme tell ya - I'm sure tennis will be played. :)

Answer 1

Well baby, I will tell you what will make me happier than I already am. All I ask is for love, respect, honesty and passion. Anything else is material and we can live without it.
Now it's very very nice when someone does some romantic gesture, especially when you least expect it. It doesn't have to cost the earth to keep romance alive, in fact snuggle time is free and is a very essential part of a relationship. Allowing each other to talk, discuss and a right to reply is a necessity. We have to be there for each other in the good times and the bad times. Buying a cheap but nice bottle of wine and a romantic candlelit dinner can be incredibly cheap, especially when using fresh produce, and the thought and effort that goes into it will win my heart.
There will be times when it's hard, but it's imperative in these times to not give up, but to try twice as hard to make a good thing great again.
Lastly, but not least, you need self belief. Believe in yourself and love yourself enough to open your heart to the one you love. Let me in, don't push me away. Tell me all your worries and all your doubts and I will try my very best to dispel those fears. And know that whatever else may happen, I will always love you. Never doubt my feelings for you. I love you!

Answer 2

Don't try to be right all the time. And as tempting as it can be, don't push each others buttons. Do nice things for each other as often as possible, and remember that while it definitely doesn't take a lot of money to go out and have fun, it's a nice thing every now and then to do something special. When the time is right, talk as often as possible about what your future goals are, like when it comes to where you want to live and raise a family, how many children (if you want any), etc. That way things are not a surprise a couple of years from now when you discuss marriage and children, and you come to find out that you're partner wants to wait a while for kids, while you want them now. My wife and I have been together for 8 years, and married for 3. It took us a long time to figure out all this, but we are so much happier now than we ever have been.

Answer 3

Hey Gochefs, am so happy to see you here after a long time, and happy for the news you just shared. As for the tips and advice - be yourself I suppose, and don't impose (well a little maybe sometimes). Otherwise, I am not the most apt person right now to be dishing out such tips. Been single, and keep falling for all the wrong guys, LOL. All the best and take care.

And oh, please play tennis with your partner, that should work ;-)

*Edit: Dang! Screw the trolls!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Well, a good start would be finding a guy who doesn't knock up random lesbians. You tell him that I'm still waiting to switch who's carrying. If he thinks I'm giving birth to this kid, he's sorely mistaken. We're supposed to switch and he's carrying the last few months and actually giving birth. Ok. Now for something that is actually true...

Layla and I do little things for each other that mean the world. I think those little things add up to so much. She brings me coffee in the morning, I make her breakfast and send her off to work. I bring flowers to her office, make a picnic basket and pull her away from her desk to have lunch in the park. She gases up my car when it's low on fuel without me knowing it. She puts a towel in the dryer when I get in the shower so it's hot and fluffy when I get out. People forget about these things. I know she loves mangoes so I pick her one up whenever I think to. She lets me eat her ice cream. Romance is in the details. : )

I guess that's my advice. Never forget about romance.

Answer 6

Two TVs, my own room even though we're both usually in there, time apart although not that often and almost never overnight. Those types of things help us. Good luck.

Answer 7

my girl and I have been together for 5 years and the key is compromise, communication, love, and respect

Answer 8

TRUST!!! it's the only recipe to keep a healthy relation!!!

Answer 9

I've found that reading this book has helped me immensely....