Soreness during or After sex?

Question

I seem to get a really sore feeling during sex that usually procrastinates to the point that I have to tell my boyfriend to stop cause it hurts so much.
Sometimes it starts to hurt when we just fool around, No intercourse involved.
Does anyone else have this problem? What should I do?
I can't really use lubricant either because I get bladder infections extreamly easy.

Answer 1

Are you using condoms? If so, you may have an allergy or sensitivity to latex or spermicide. Although it does sound more like you are under-lubricated. Lubricants shouldn't give you a bladder infection...bacteria causes those.

Answer 2

Lube is your friend! It reduces the friction that makes you sore during/after sex. If you don't already, you should pee before and after you have sex. When you're in the act, all sorts of fluid and bacteria is forced into your urethra, which sits stagnant and festers until it forms an infection. Peeing after sex solves this problem. And with the worry about bladder infections out of the way, you can use lubrication, which will take care of your soreness problem.

Answer 3

This may sound obvious, but make sure he washes his hands well and with soap before you guys fool around. There can be lots of things on the hands that will irritate you. My ex was a chef and once I got a reaction from leftover cayenne pepper on his hands... but I digress.

Otherwise, those who are suggesting a latex or spermicide allergy might have something. If it isn't that, you may have a low-grade yeast infection, which will cause pain and irritation, and interrupt your natural lubrication. Might want to talk to your doctor.

Answer 4

You're probably not lubricated enough. I wouldn't think that using a water based lubricant would cause bladder infections. You may want to check with your doctor.

Answer 5

Maybe you should go to see urologist and tell him/her all your symptoms. Also ask the doctor about possible interstitial cystitis (I.C.). Feeling like you have a bladder infection and painful intercourse are symptoms of I.C.

Answer 6

might desire to be from the friction if it went on for awhile. that's a comfortable area. it would desire to additionally be a minor an infection. I additionally accept as true with yet another answerer, your muscular tissues might desire to easily be sore. the only authentic answer is to loosen up. i could communicate on your loved ones wellness care provider or gynecologist just to be on the risk-free area.

Answer 7

check with doctor for other infections and use protection.

Answer 8

You should be able to get yourself wet , just by gently rubbing your clit, i hope this helps.