Can my friend seriously be mad at me for hanging out with this guy this weekend instead of her. Yes we had plans already and I just put more plans over it. I understand that, but she taking it all up the butt and around the corner. Not only that I've done so much stuff for her that I didn't want to do. But did I get mad. I was in a tank top and shorts until one in the morning once for her and her little boyfriend. I snuck out of her house at three in the morning with her to go to her boyfriend's, when of course I didn't want to. But when I want to make plans with the guy I like and interrupt our boring plans she gets mad. I've done so much for her can't she just be happy I'm finally having my chance to hang out with him?
And I hang out with her every flipping weekend and we do the same thing. Wake up, Eat, Shower, Get ready, Take pictures, If we're lucky go to the park or go uptown, then eat again, watch tv, then sleep.
Same thing every weekend. UGH!
Does she have a right to be mad?
2007-11-11 08:20:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes Most definitely because maybe she feels left out so start by trying to include her in to your activities as a friend and maybe she want be so mad and plus you are with your new guy it may not be all the time but star spending some time with her to and make her the important friend that she is because still is your friend and you suppose to love her as a friend and not as a user so maybe you guys can go shopping next week are something are go to the movie start back trying her as a friend because you would not want her to do that to you so don't do that to her and good luck with y'all friendship peace.
2007-11-11 08:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course she has every right to be mad. You didn't have to go along with any little plan, and that was your only point. You have to face the facts; YOU ARE WRONG. You cancelled plans when you should've told your boyfriend "I have plans this weekend, can I hang out with you next weekend?" Your at fault here.
By the way, this is random, but why did you have to be in a tank top and shorts for her boyfriend and her? I mean, what did that have to do with anything? I'm just curious what you mean by that (what were you doing, etc.)
2007-11-11 08:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol I can understand where you're coming from, happens to me all the time. But instead of getting angry, and shouting at her, or getting mad back, try to relax and tell her you're sorry. Subtly, and i mean SUBTLY, point out that you've done plenty of stuff for her, but don't be too blunt, or she'll just get even madder, and you might never be friends again- because of this one little thing. =]
2007-11-11 08:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by OnionAttack 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's ridic that she is mad. I'm assuming you're in highschool. What is your friend going to do when you go to college and have different friends that take up all your time? But next time, if you make plans with someone first don't ditch them.
2007-11-11 08:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Marcy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is very dependent on you. Try just talking with her. If she only sees her side and you are always flexible for her and she is not for you then that doesn't seem fair. Maybe she isn't aware of how she seems to take, take, take from you. Sometimes it is hard to talk with the ones we are closest to but good luck.
2007-11-11 08:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by feeona 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should have told here that you wanted to see this guy insted. Then made other arrangement for you and her. That is what a true friends does in a situation like this one!!
2007-11-11 08:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If people no longer in elementary school want to act like eight year olds, about all that we can do about it is look friends who are behave with more maturity.
2007-11-11 08:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by jotacar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm, yeah a little bit. You shouldn't blow off your plans. Make them more exciting next time, and apologize for skipping out.
2007-11-11 08:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Valentyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE FEELS LEFT OUT IS ALL. TRY TO INCLUDE HER IN YOUR ACTIVITIES WITH YOUR NEW GUY. MAYBE NOT ALL THE TIME, BUT SOME WOULD MAKE HER FEEL LIKE SHE IS STILL IMPORTANT TO YOU. GOOD LUCK TO YOU.
2007-11-11 08:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by tatersma1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, yeah, she does have somewhat of a right to be upset.
2007-11-11 08:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by la grumpy:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋