teen pregnancy?

Question

I am 15 years old and I just found out that I am pregnant. How do I tell my parents? They are very strict and are going to BLOW when I tell them. Help!!

Answer 1

All you can do is tell them. They are going to have a million and one questions and are going to be very, very disappointed. Think about things they are going to ask, and try and come up with a logical answer now. That way you aren't taken by surprise. Sorry I can't be of much help. I can't really feel sorry for anyone, yet alone teens, who have sex and can't handle the consequences like an adult.

Answer 2

It sucks right? I have a friend who got pregnant. She was an A student, class president, cheerleader, a favortie of all the teachers etc.. You get the picture. She broke it to her parents and they were angry and dissapointed for 3 months and so was she. She had to drop out of school for 4 months. When the baby was born her parents actually had a neighbor who could not conceive and was planning on adopting so she adopted the baby. It was a sad time for everyone but she got through it. She actually is in a 4 year, good college right now and has vowed not to have sex until marriage. Although she was 17, turning 18 when she was pregnant and had already been accepted to college. So she had the baby at the right time and still got to go to college. This is just an example that you can get through this you will just need a lot of support from your parents. 15 is really young for sex. A health teacher once told me 'If you think you are ready to do the deed then you are ready to be a parent.' Its true and you will have to think about keeping the baby or adoption. Your parents will just have to get over it. Just apologize and give them lots of love. Hopefully they are the kind of people who will accept the fact that you made a ginormous mistake. Tell them to think back and I am sure they have made mistakes. Hopefully you will learn from it. Good Luck! <3 Lauren

Answer 3

u have to decide what u wanna do.... if u want to get rid of it or not. I hope its not cuz there r so many people out there ready to adopt if u cant handle it(maybe that wasnt needded but ne way) once u make that decision u need to think about the aspects that come along with the choice ure gonna make. think about q's they r gonna ask so that u can be prepared to tell them, cuz the last thing u wanna do is seem like an air head. if u have plans of keeping it u should start making plans to possibly get state assistance so that ure parents arnt taking care of ure child. this is all I can say I wish u the best and also u should have the babys father assist u and telling ure parents if thats possible.. again this is only my opinion I hope I didnt offend

also after u tell them Im sure they'll come around and u gotta do this soon so that u can start ure prenatals and doc appts etc

Answer 4

I was in the same situation when I was that old. Yeah just talk to a teen parenting counslor at school if you school has one and ask them, and also get the father to help out so he can take some of the blow off you. they'll calm down after a while and expecially after the baby is born, but they're gonna treat you like crap most of the time and will continue until you finally move out.

Answer 5

hey, I'm 17 and im pregnant too. the way I told my parents was I told my aunt and uncle(well actually my big mouth cousin did) and they helped me sit down and tell them. I thought they were gonna start screaming at me and they didn't they laughed at me, because they said they already knew? So don't just expect the worse. But you need to tell them right away so that you can get prenatal care so that you will be healthy. Also don't listen to the people that tell you "you're only a kid your self" I know plenty of woman who have had children at that age, it may be really hard but they are great parents. I hope this helped good luck and congratulations!

Answer 6

Tell them the truth sure they will be very pissed off and might kick you out I don't know your parents but hopefully they won't. But they will find out sooner or later. And by the way why are you having sex in the first place you are only a child your self don't you kids even think about the consequence of having sex or do you guys think it's a cool thing to do....OMG what is this world coming too. Will know here's a crash coarse in responsibility have fun...

Answer 7

Just come out and tell them i know this might be hard but you have to face them and tell them or other wise there going to find out eventually cause your belly is going to grow and then there going to be even more mad at you for not telling them. I would just set them down and say mom and dad i have something to tell you, Say i am a young adult and that i know i have to take responsibility's for my actions and i have. Then just come out and say im pregnant. I know that is easier said then
done but there really isen't a nice way to say it. But you know that they will love you and therefore they will support you and support the descions you make. But i hope that helps and i hope everything goes out well just dont worry and make sure you make the right descions dont let anyone make them for you. Congrats on the baby.

Answer 8

talk to a relative, they may be able to help you break the news. no parents wants thier 15 year old daughter to come home and tell em their preg but its only coz they love you. and, as they love and care about you they will get over the shock and be there for you. All the best.

Answer 9

I think talking with your school counselor to help with that situation. Get the father with you as well and have a meeting with the school councelor. Might just help! Good Luck!

Answer 10

Ok... they may blow... but, after they calm down, I'm sure they'll be supportive. You need to tell them, as you need support, doctors visits, and you'll start to show.
Good luck.