I am getting called Ugly ALOT more in year 9 I am so fed up!?

Question

I am in year 9 and people are calling me alot worse now than year eight. It is getting on my NERVES!
Heres two pictures of me:
http://i221.photobucket.com/albums/dd241/bronte-minns/NASTii3.jpg
http://i221.photobucket.com/albums/dd241/bronte-minns/Me07.jpg

Thanks :]

No I am not 9!!! I am in year 9 which means i am 13!!

My question is: What can I do? Give a come back? I DONT want to tell anybody because its pethetic

Answer 1

your not ugly ur just diffrent than those 95 pound blonde skanks. the same thing with me 2 years ago everybody was making fun of me saying i was an ugly goth and then i moved schools and started wearing makeup and got diffrent hair and wore abercrombie and i got my first boyfriend and then i became friends with some popularish people so it was really weird my life got turned upside down and what i have advise for you is THOSE PEOPLE WHO MADE FUN OF YOU MAKE YOU STRONGER. AND WHEN YOU GET SO THAT BOYS WILL BE GOO-GOOiNG ALL OVER YOU (you'll get there i promise i can see it in ur pics) ALL U GOTTA SAY TO THEM IS, "B!TCHEZ, LOOK AT ME NOW."

if ya wanna talk, im happy to :]
aim- stephanieesaysx

you remind me alot of my old self.

Answer 2

well im in year 9 as well.

so 2 start with each morning exfolitate ur skin so u have a nice elegant glow. Then put a small amount of foundation on ( not much just so u got a bit of a tan ) then put on some eyeliner and mascara to a epth 2 the eyes and just a clear lipgloss on. Then with the hair wash i throughly ever other day and straighten it or add some random little curls into it. That should make u more girly and pretty. Then of course u have got 2 smile loads and have a good posture. feel good bout urself.
Well thats wot i do and it works it will get beta but follow all of those tips.

Answer 3

Like I said in my email; true beauty comes from within. I've been called ugly once at school before well "disgusting" actually, but he was joking because then he developed a crush on me! You see, what I'm getting at is that people are jealous and what they say isn't always true. Take whatever anyone says with a pinch of salt. Those people are not worth your worries sweety. When they insult you shrug it off, and be certain to find them on friends reunited in 10 years; I bet your be some supermodel whilst they run the local chippy! Chin up, love yourself forever and always, if you need any help; you know where I am (Y answers lol), Princess Lola x

Answer 4

Hi you are not ugly but some people always find something to pick at on anyone it wont be just you who they do it to. When you leave school it wont happend to you as they will have grown up.

Bullying can get serious and can effect you later on in life, so if they are getting to personal then tell someone.

If your not bothered by there comments just tell them to F off and that if they think that about you then they dont have to look at you. If they still do it say this '' how pathetic are all you lot, your talking about me constanly on how ugly I am, so if my uglyness is that important to you, then you must be secretly obbsessed with me and how I look have you got nothing better to do. ok I know you made your point you think I am ugly but Im not going to change for you so you maywell shut the F up and get on with your pathetic lives and find someone else to talk about''

Thats all you need to say. If you dont tell them they will carry on doing it, have a go at them and say what you really feel,

Your not ugly, its just what happens in schools, I used to get it more in year 9-10 and now even though I stuck up for myself it has effected my confidence greatly .

They dont need to treat people the way they do, I dont know what they get out of making people feel like ****, its not nessacary it just screws there head up.

Answer 5

You're not ugly. You look like you are just unhappy in the first one. Being attractive is not all about beauty, I know plenty of girls who were cute in year 9 and since leaving school have morphed into real trolls...remember you are still young and your features will continue to change.

Don't get hung up on it. I swear make up and a good diet and some exercise and nice clothes are all that makes the difference. Because these are the things that give you confidence adn nothing is more attractive than being quietly confident in yourself.

Don't mean offence when i say this (I had really bad acne in year 9 so I know what it's like) but Coco Chanel said something I always live by "there is no such thing as ugly women, just lazy". You may be like me, I had to work really hard to feel like I was on par with everyone else!! I ended up leaving school at 16 but later got a job working as a beauty adviser and studied with the Open University for a degree. I regret caring so much about how I looked, I wish someone had told me that with a bit of work and research (check out some beauty advice websites) you can be attractive and have lots of men asking you out...it's all about confidence.

I suggest you don't retaliate, but change, gradually so you don't draw to much attention; perfect time over the xmas holidays...Buy a copy of the beauty bible maybe? It's got some great advice and ideas for things you can make at home, face scrubs etc. Also it has about yoga, hair styles to suit your face, meditation. You'll have a head start on the future trolls that are calling you names. It will be great for your confidence...it's not all about how you look. That will only get you so far, remember. there are plenty of pretty girls,, not many of them have brains. You can work at the attractiveness of yourself, but pretty girls(who pick on you) may find it hard to work on anything on the inside. I look forward to being served by them in mc donalds one day.

Answer 6

Ther is nothing "wrong" with your face. It is growing and changing. Your not just a "Cutie wittle bebe" any more, your becoming your own person with defined features.
Perhaps what they mean is you look unkept. Your older now and so your style should reflect that. A trendier hair cut and some lip gloss with a pair of catchy earings will change the way everyone sees you! Jeans with a pretty top and purse to match your shoes and your set!!

Answer 7

all the people that say you're ugly, are called haters.
you should face the world without showing them that you are actually getting annoyed by this. just be your self and tell them to go get a life. as you grow, you will change. bottom line be proud of what you are. and as long as you do that, there is nothing in this world that can hurt your feelings.

Answer 8

Gosh you got told your ugly, these people need to grow up your not ugly, beauty is within too, i used to get told this at school i just ignored them they get bored of it and realised eventually i was cool person and guys started to ask me out and the girls sto saying this. Go gilr you do rock, watch guys will be queuing up for you.

Answer 9

What you look nice i bet those fat bitches are ugly so take that back from them and get some of your friends to stick up for u or u could tell your mum and dad or any teacher so they can get in trouble so good luck.

Answer 10

you are far from ugly, take no notice of what people say and tell them beauty is only skin deep, its what type of person you are underneath too, you wait and see, you will grow into a stunner, in a few years time you will wonder why you ever asked this question, lots of hugs