i am very much affected by this.wat shall i do?????????
2007-11-11 01:52:32 · 3 answers · asked by madi s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
give ample time, like some months, before saying EVERYTHING to them, that way you will have time to assess them well. and stop getting hurt later.
2007-11-11 02:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by henna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question. I can relate completely. For the past 5 years I feel as if everyone around me as betrayed my trust and friendship. So much so that I have pushed everyone away. I no longer share my feelings with anyone with the exception of my spouse. This has made things very hard on me. Not having anyone that I feel I can trust. I wish I had a real answer for you. All I can advise is that you do as I am. I have made an appointment to speak with a counselor. Hopefully I will find some peace and resolution. Best of luck to you.
2007-11-11 10:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be an open book, it is ok to speak and have an opinion but you don't share your life story with just anyone.
You have made some bad choices in trusting some people, we all do that, you must learn from your mistakes, you will get better at it. Don't give your ideas to anyone, especially if your work is competative in any way sure as anything someone will steal it and make it their own, write you idea down date it and submit a copy to managemant they will appreciate your input and you will get the credit. This is just an example.
You are too trusting, it is not a bad fault and you can't help yourself but do protect yourself against those who have no scruples. Peace
2007-11-11 10:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋