What's the first step to overcome the fact that you're ugly?

Question

Is it realizing that you're ugly and work on other things or just believe that you're not ugly?

Answer 1

Face the fact that your ugly and start working on your stand up routine.

seriously.. who cares if your ugly. Just work on yourself, make yourself the best person that you can be. Even the beautiful people have to do this.

Answer 2

I honestly think that no one is just 'ugly'. There's certain things that make people who they are. And no one should have to overcome that fact. The outside of a person never displays what lies inside of them. I mean, yes a lot of people base things mostly on looks. But this is something that should change.

Although i don't know you, i'm pretty sure that you're not ugly. and you shouldn't call yourself that cause no one really is. It's just someone's opinion, or worse yoyour own. Consider ur self average, if u ask me, that's better than being ugly, don't you think? anyway, just think of yourself as anyone else who is normal looking. this way, you'll gain the confidence you need to live life daily.

Not one person should realize that their ugly, cause like i said before, no one really is.

Answer 3

You're not ugly. Ugly is only on the inside, IMO. If you're a good person and follow the golden rule, then you can never be ugly.

But ok, since you asked. I think you have got to stop thinking of yourself as ugly and realize people will like you for you who are and they won't care at all about the way you look. Thinking that way about yourself will only stunt you and prevent people from getting to know the real you.

Answer 4

Don't call yourself ugly!
I highly doubt you are truly ugly, unless you rape little children or something.
How do you overcome thinking that you are ugly? Well stop thinking it. Sure it might sound hard, but to good things for yourself. Buy yourself a new outfit you look good in, take up a sport and feel good about yourself, or get a facial, anything. Looks isn't everything. But it does feel bad sometimes to not look your best, so just pamper yourself. When I don't look my bets I paint my nails or spray some perfume on. I feel pretty and flirty even if I forgot to put my makeup on, or my jacket is not fitting or my face is puffy from all that crying. As you get older you realize don't judge people by their outer appearance.

Answer 5

Some people say there is no such thing as ugly but there is .. although its not a bad thing .. e.g not everyone can be good looking .. or smart or sporty .. everyone has different assets.

THE FIRST STEP has to be to realise that being ugly isnt a bad thing and really means nothing .. it has nothing to do with your self worth as a person.. I used to feel really ugly and depressed and once I realised that it didnt matter then things improved. Think about all the positive attributes you posess ;-)

Answer 6

You believe that your ugly so you believe others see you that way therefore the first step is self-realization. Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder and their are many ways a person can be attractive. Believe in yourself and others will follow suit.

Answer 7

Others are jealous. Stereotypes of blondes, make adult men like them extra desirable so while a blonde "flirts" with yet another guy, the different females comprehend they don't have of project with that guy because of the fact they think of they are able to't compete with the blonde notably if she's captivating.

Answer 8

Well, everybody is unique in their own ways. I don't think you can seriously think that you are beautiful even when you are ugly. There's always going to be self-doubt, but you should always find the good things in yourself. You must learn to love yourself before you can love others. You have to find the real person you are and the personality that matches with it. Trust me, if you're a good person, people will learn to love you. And of course....always try to have confidence in yourself. It really helps you feel better. =)

Answer 9

Ugly is subjective. What looks ugly to you might look interesting and unique to someone else. Anyone gets used to how their friends look and don't think about it anymore, no matter if they're handsome or not. I've never heard of someone breaking up with a friend just because they don't look good. I have heard, however, of breakups because someone was mean, dishonest, stingy - you name it, but never because someone's not very good looking.

Don't call yourself ugly. You'd never done such a thing to a friend of yours, whould you? So be a little friendly here and don't call yourself that.

In my lifetime, I came to conclusion that not so good looking people tend to be more reliable as friends. Because I chose them for who they are, not for what they look like.

Answer 10

I don't believe anyone is ugly. every person has there own features and qualities which makes them beautiful. I would like you to stand in front of a mirror and really look at yourself very carefully and study all your features; the shape of your mouth, the color of our eyes, the shape of your nose. you will find that there are a lot of things about yourself that you really never noticed before. repeat after me, (I AM A VERY BEAUTIFUL PERSON) this will boost your confidence and you will see just how beautiful you really are.